@taylorlorenz I will put this here since it seems relevant to the topic.
Many years ago, I had a friend on Tumblr. We met through a cartoon about singing rocks. Expanded our relationships to Discord.
She was in Venezuela.
I last heard from her in 2017.
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Several years ago I was playing a game where you become light collecting, candle forging children. One of my friends was in Texas. His best friend was someone from Hong Kong. Then China took over.
I stopped playing not long after...
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I will not pretend these were pleasant. They weren't. But they were Important, and only possible because of the relative openness and the pseudonominimity of the web.
I needed to be in a mixed-age environment. I needed to be someone with no identity. Because it gave me neighbors across the globe. When China claimed HongKong, there was a loud part of me that did not fucking care whether China technically owned Hong Kong or not. China was taking away a neighbor, and ripping away someone's best friend.
Honestly, that was the part of me that was right.
A little while later, I saw people talking about how you no longer hear about the protests in Hong Kong.
I am not gonna pretend that felt as close. But I thought of that candle forging kid as I read about how the Apple Daily was closed.
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Why say this? All of this?
Honestly, because I think killing those moments is a large part of the point. Those I knew from these communal spaces online helped to move people from all over the world from "conceptually people" to "People". Which helps to shift where my mindset is politically. Shifts what I can justify. Where my lines are. How I react to things.
These bans are not about protecting children. They're about preventing the ones most ready to connect with people from reaching those they most need to connect with, and discussing issues they have not yet been coerced into accepting.