how do I use "don't justify, argue, defend or explain" with my dispatcher who acts like a manager?
how do I use "don't justify, argue, defend or explain" with my dispatcher who acts like a manager?
You don’t! At least not in the sense that I’m aware of the JADE thing:
JADE is nothing that is a strong work proven topic but came from social media to handle narcissistic people as a peer group.
Your reactions are hostility and rejection based and how I understand you it’s your nerves that you want to preserve.
For this in a professional work place there are multiple ways to deal with and even all of them at the same time, just from the top of my head:
Hope this helps a bit!
If ignore any request outside his authority.
I would also start making IT tickets every time your device stops you from working. Maybe you have a unique bad device or there is a systematic problem with the topping and nothing will change untill enough people complain about it.
I don’t think JADE is necessarily the right approach.
I don’t really understand the situation you’re trying to describe.
he likes to ask per chat if the smartphone works ok
What does this mean? Why is he asking if he’s just going to say “the smartphone works” regardless of your response?
Your suggested response is defensive and argumentative by the way, particularly so.
I would handle this by just playing along. If he asks if the phone is working just say “yes”. If a problem with communication arises and you use your best judgement, which later pisses him off, just explain what’s happened and ask what he would like you to do next time.
You don’t actually have to to what he says, just make him feel like you’re acquiescing to his authority.