how do I use "don't justify, argue, defend or explain" with my dispatcher who acts like a manager?
how do I use "don't justify, argue, defend or explain" with my dispatcher who acts like a manager?
How can I remain professional toward this female colleague I feel wants something romantic with me when I don't?
at what point in life it's too late to go back to school?
at what point in life it's too late to go back to school?
should I go back to my old job now that several people, some of them more knowledgeable than me have told me they don't understand my decision to quit it?
cross-posted from: https://linux.community/post/3994427 [https://linux.community/post/3994427] > several months ago I wrote about leaving floor nursing for moving patients in beds. I also posted it would mean a 20% financial hit. > > Turns out the financial hit is 2%. I took the job. > > Several of my former colleagues, after seeing me now that I switched jobs cannot hide their disbelief and shock. Some of the things I’ve heard: “what a waste, you can do more.” “You are a RN and you choose to move beds?”, “Haven’t you worked with us?”, “Oh no, don’t tell me you’re moving beds now.” and more. > > I’ve always been very individualistic and never cared much about what others think about me. This new job means less stress and I can sleep better. > > But it’s not only other RNs who tell me this: doctors as well, very knowledgeable ones. > > Am I doing something wrong, when so many people, some of them much smarter than me tell me what I’m doing is stupid? > > Going back to my old job doesn’t mean going back to my old department, just back to floor nursing.
should I go back to my old job now that several people, some of them more knowledgeable than me have told me they don't understand my decision to quit it?
How do you respond to unwanted advice?
How do you respond to unwanted advice?
do you remember a time when societies were so polarized and shifted so much to the right like today? How long did it last?
cross-posted from: https://linux.community/post/3587385 [https://linux.community/post/3587385] > I don’t mean only the US but in much of the world: in many European countries the populist far right is unseating Christian-Democratic parties (conservative parties), like in Hungary, Slovakia or Czechia. In others like Germany or France the far right is at the gates of power, in the UK, Reform UK is running high in the polls. In Turkey autocratic Erdogan is copying the Putin playbook to systematically dismantle the social-democratic opposition. In Japan, a neo Thatcherite that doesn’t hide she honors Japanese war criminals is about to become the new PM. > > Something common I see in all these parties is strong disaffection with the current state of their countries and a longing to an idealized past they promise to bring back, to make countries great again… > > Except that societies have changed beyond recognition in the last 40 years, emerging China, India, Mexico and a myriad of south east Asian countries can produce cheaper than us in the developed countries, so called first world democracies are now much older and indebted than 40 years ago (no wonder societies have shifted so hard to the right), buying a house is now waaaay more expensive than 40 years ago, you cannot earn a livable wage just assembling toasters like 40 years ago, you just cannot roll automation and digitization back, no matter how much you complain… > > The past cannot come back, neither will it come back just because some people want it to. It’s completely futile, but people are not rational about this, they’re completely emotional and tribal. > > It’s like a huge, collective effort in denial: denying that we in the developed world are older, not the first ones in the world anymore, that other countries we always considered inferior to us are even surpassing us technologically while we complain and hope for a savior that brings us 40 years back when we, the white guys, ruled all over. > > I don’t see it happening: being angry and voting the far right may make some people feel good, it may make them feel they’re somehow taking their country back, but it’s not going to stop China, India and other countries from developing, investing in new technologies and even creating trade alliances that bypass the US or the EU. > > My question: was there a moment in history where societies were so shifted to the right like today? How long did it last?
do you remember a time when societies were so polarized and shifted so much to the right like today? How long did it last?