Fesshole 🧻Straight guy deeply in love with my sadly lesbian work colleague. In every sense of the word, have been for 5 years. I've turned down promotions and new jobs to stay working with her. There is no future. It is hopeless.
Reynardo the Red@fesshole Then she's your benchmark. Note which of her attributes you admire - wit, charm, humour, empathy - and never go below those levels in a future partner. This lass is your friend, and is also showing you what you truly seek.
Moray
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