Wouldnāt quite call this āgigachadā behavior, but itās good and healthy to not jump on literally anyone who offers, even if you arenāt particularly interested. I suspect anon sees this as āgigachadā because theyāre steeped in manosphere/incel ideology (unsurprising for a 4chan user).
Definitely autistic.
Yeah I donāt associate being rude to someone that is awkwardly expressing an interest in you, cool, or alpha, or whatever the fuck gigachad is, itās just a dick move, that will make that person expressing interest lose confidence to ask out the next person, which is a problem in todayās society more than ever with online dating kind of poisoning the well.
There is a nice way to say no, and autism is no excuse for not being nice there.
I suppose thatās true, but I know many people think their hints are obvious, when they arenāt to a great many of us, at least in the moment after the fact we might realize someone hinted at us. People are dense at times, not just autists either. So maybe they thought they had been clear in their rejection of their attention but it wasnāt picked up on?
I mean I have been hit on by people Iāve no interest in, and Iāve never been so rude. Iāve also asked people out and had them rudely say no when a more polite way would have been appreciated, and they might have thought hints were clear, but they werenāt to me at all. And Iām not alone in being slow to take the hints, men in general are slow to get such hints by woman they are rather known for it as I understand it.
If she asked if she was annoying, she knew on some level.
When I was younger, I used to get so annoyed at hinting disinterest rather than outright stating it, but I eventually realized that if someone is interested and doesnāt have barriers to getting involved, they wonāt be coy about it. If they are busy but otherwise interested in a date when asked, theyāll usually say more than āI have plans that dayā, like ābut Iām free on x dayā or āmaybe another time?ā or āIād love to go on a date with you but canāt that specific timeā.
If they are evasive at all about it, they are either not interested in general and are just trying to be polite (NOT really for your sake, so donāt start about how youād rather they be clear, itās to protect themselves from the pieces of shit that get aggressive when they realize they donāt have a chance), or they have other shit going on that complicates any interest (like itās hard for them to schedule a date ahead of time because they are already in a relationship and need a good excuse to get away for a date).
First line reminds me of office space
I work with a guy like this. Lead his icebreaker with āI donāt understand people so donāt expect me to interact with you.ā
Heās the most brilliant person Iāve ever worked with. His knowledge is encyclopedic. He will show you how what youāre asking is idiotic in as few words as is necessary. He has no fear of manager or customer.
He has my eternal allegiance.
I run my own company (a one man operation) contracting technology services primarily to a single business with occasional short contracts to other businesses. My main contract has been the same company for several years. Iāve gained enough trust to say a lot of really blunt shit to C levels.
Thatās the thing. A lot of them want someone to be blunt to them from time to time. If they donāt have that they become unmoored from reality.
Ungay: anon is a woman too.
Completlely flips the script, doesnāt it?
itās both a literal utterance in the sense of pointing to the denotative meaning of another term (fetishism in this instance) and an inscription, therefore literal in the sense of being a work of literature.
I also could argue that I used that word colloquially as to add emphasis on the confidence I have in my statement, which is also a correct use of the word.
If you care be sure to leave another definiens of āliteralā that would render my post incorrect in your regard. Frankly I would love to learn more about your point of view on the matter
literally what it means
Literally not
People treat words like divine tangible streams of meaning when theyāre just sounds we make
Completely unrelated, seems like you have a bug up your butt about something else. Also Iām pretty sure nobody thinks that either, sorry a prescriptivist upset you but that has no relation to what I said.
There I think of people regarding dislike of the ābigā light as being an indicator for autism(???).
Makes one wonder if vampires are autistic.
to an religious extent
yeah, I donāt think that applies here
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