They are both autistic.

I love how autism has become this fetishized thing that you slap onto all people operating outside of expected parameters.

I don’t think that’s what fetishized means.

literally what it means. People treat words like divine tangible streams of meaning when they’re just sounds we make

literally what it means

Literally not

People treat words like divine tangible streams of meaning when they’re just sounds we make

Completely unrelated, seems like you have a bug up your butt about something else. Also I’m pretty sure nobody thinks that either, sorry a prescriptivist upset you but that has no relation to what I said.