@thedarktangent ICR. (I Can’t Recall)
No wait. Almost? 😇
@adamshostack @thedarktangent My particular community will dissolve without voice chat.
But the properties you mentioned are non-negotiable for me as well.
Hasn't any good old forumsoftware always been a better alternative to Discord?
I have never understood why one, especially opensource projects, would put all their valuable data in a closed system like Discord, hidden from public search.
Look at Proxmox for example. Lots of searches for Debian/sysadmin related stuf land on their forum and that's part of why they are so popular imo.
RE: https://infosec.exchange/@mttaggart/116041595378233675
@TomSeppert forum software is typically not realtime chat.
– reply to Michael Taggart's post, if you're interested. Thanks.
There's never been a better time to abandon Discord and start using Matrix with [Element](https://www.privacyguides.org/en/social-networks/#element) for your communities 💚 #Discord #AgeVerification #Censorship #MassSurveillance #Privacy #E2EE #Matrix
@Em0nM4stodon What worries me a bit about Matrix is how lax they seem to be about security for years:
From late 2022:
https://arstechnica.com/information-technology/2022/09/matrix-patches-vulnerabilities-that-completely-subvert-e2ee-guarantees/
From middle of 2024:
https://soatok.blog/2024/08/14/security-issues-in-matrixs-olm-library/
I haven’t found anything more recent after a quick search.
I hear exploits are available on various markets. Hopefully they continue to improve because they seem the most mentioned and have many passionate supporters.
@thedarktangent Indeed. Matrix does have some flaws and problems. But, in the current context, it has fewer flaws and problems than Discord in my opinion.
With open-source technologies, there's always the downside that teams have much smaller budgets to improve features and look for vulnerabilities.
At the same time, for the budget they do have, it's incredible what that there aren't that much more incidents than there are with large corporations' commercial software.
Matrix with Element is definitely not a perfect option, but it's a much better option than Discord for data privacy, especially with age verification and AI scanning now.
Time for a #discord alternatives thread, for no particular reason. I've actually been looking into all available options for the past few weeks for other reasons, so here's a thread to share what I've found. In particular I'm looking for stuff with: * Data sovereignty * Strong moderation tools * Wide platform support Hopefully this gives everyone else some ideas too, and feel free to chime in with corrections, suggestions or anything else!
Discord Alternatives, Ranked L: https://taggart-tech.com/discord-alternatives/ C: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=46949564 posted on 2026.02.09 at 14:15:14 (c=0, p=7)
@thedarktangent Depends on what purpose you have in mind.
I've used Matrix the most so I'll try to comment on what it's fit/unfit for.
E2EE: sometimes it breaks, hence the infamous "unable to decrypt message" meme
system load: Synapse is known to use lots of resources, you definitely can't just leave it unattended for months, it will fill up disk space. Other implementations are lighter but support fewer features. Less of a problem if you disable federation.
clients: Element is pretty heavy, the others lag behind in featured / bug fixes. Even Nheko isn't exactly lightweight.
voice/video chat: Native calls actually work pretty smoothly now, but I haven't tried screen sharing or group calls.
moderation: Moderation tools are lacking. Permission system is also not very fine grained and AFAIK uses "power levels" instead of ACLs.
notifications: Still doesn't have a "mentions" list, or maybe it does but it's in beta. If you have a busy "inbox", you will get lost.
I see others recommending it as the default Discord alternative and I think that should be taken with a heap of salt. It's certainly viable for some niches, but expect some flaws.