@amerpie what you mean is: so it's well worth it, right? .... Right??
You could also have turned the heat on and stated: you may be choosing between your son's insulin or daughters inhaler
So many dark ways to frame this, that perfectly underlines the point.
@dnkboston I'll confess some uncertainty about the full validity of our last national election, but assuming the numbers are valid, my take is that far too many of us just didn't show up at all. And if those who sat it out HAD shown up, the outcome would have been different.
I have long said that cynicism is dangerously corrosive, and this is an example of that that should serve as a warning to people.
Vote. Even if you hate everyone, decide who you hate MORE, and vote against them.
@ninafelwitch @amerpie The internet says:
"Shame vs. guilt cultures differ in their moral compass: guilt cultures (often individualistic, Western) focus inward on personal conscience and rules (you broke a rule, feel bad); while shame cultures (often collectivistic, East Asian/Mediterranean) focus outward on societal perception, honor, and "saving face" (you acted dishonorably, bring shame to group)."
I feel like we need to acknowledge SPITE cultures, too... That's what's driving the USA.
@davidhmccoy @amerpie I saw so many āgood peopleā under the caudilloās spell first hand, voting for cruelty many times over.
12 years after his death, with the country in ruins and millions of Venezuelans driven out of it, I still find people that believe that he was āmisguidedā by his entourage.
Fascism is a powerful drug, sometimes I see that our values may not be enough. The social contract also has to be strong and current.
I definitely donāt have all the context. Was thinking about a friend of mind whose child feelsā¦odd about being mixed. Friend was a bit handās off and kid was influenced by a Conservative relative. Looks down on other Hispanics, apparently and has a right-wing bent.
This reminded me of that.
All around, itās tough to see.
https://thehill.com/opinion/white-house/5636808-trump-regime-corruption-wealthy/
At the least we should make an effort to "name & shame" the anti-democracy billionaires who support the regime.
Voting with our wallets might catch their attention, if only briefly.
Elon Musk
Howard Lutnick
Linda McMahon
Steve Witkoff
Kelly Loeffler
Joe Gebbia
Antonio Gracias
Tilman Fertitta
Melinda Hildebrand
Stephen Feinberg
Warren Stephens
Paul Atkins
Michael Dell
https://www.washingtonpost.com/politics/interactive/2025/trump-white-house-billionaires-musk/
https://www.theguardian.com/business/2025/dec/05/trump-billionaires-dell-investment-accounts
@amerpie and your wedding cake was baked by a straight couple.
(I hate this timeline so much)
@amerpie I often think about "The Wives" in The Handmaid's Tale. Clearly abused & not free themselves, they have classes of women below them who they can punch down on so that's enough for them to feel powerful.
Keeping people's hatred cast downward is the most powerful blinding to their own sorry status.