#Vale Wes Smith ❤️‍🩹

my 90 year-old dad died last night after a very long life, a long decline, multiple hospitalisations, and the last couple of months spent in hospital & a repat facility

lots of complex feelings for me, but I’m glad he no longer needs to struggle in difficult circumstances (largely of his own creation, but still ❤️‍🩹)

when he was young, he travelled the world in the Merchant Navy in the loud, hot bellies of large cargo ships amongst the enormous engines with pistons several times taller than himself. he only spent a short time in each port – a tasting menu, you might say – but he felt that he had seen the entire world by the time he got married

he worked many jobs in his long career, most of them spent bending metal to his will, often shaping machines into new forms to perform tasks for which they were never originally designed. he worked long hours to provide financially for his family – which he saw as his main duty in life – but also because he loved working with machines & solving engineering problems born of metal. grease. electricity.

he was a fitter & turner, a boiler-maker, a repairer & maintainer, a “keeper-runnerer”, a tinkerer. he used tools to design & make other tools to make machines. I’m sure that some of my own interests & skills were influenced by growing up watching him execute his craft, hearing him talk about his work, & being dragged along to yet another industrial robot exhibition 😩😜

he was a life-long learner, and my own love of 🤔 – or at least facility with – computers & electronics & code (oh my!) were things he saw (and understood) and supported. in the late 1970s or very early 1980s he took a programming course (which was the spelling at the time 😜) at the local TAFE, and he took me along – a rare opportunity in that era. my first hands-on experience with code at 11 or 12 years old was in the form of mapping out & writing programmes down by hand on graph paper & then encoding them on a stack of mark sense cards with a B2 pencil to be fed into a card reader (and drawing that all-important diagonal line down the side of the stack with said pencil – #IYKYK 😆)

it wasn’t long until I had begged sufficiently & got my very first computer (that we absolutely couldn’t really afford), a #CoCo – the original #TRS80 #ColorComputer model in “battleship grey” with 16K RAM 😲, later upgraded to a whopping 64K 🤯 🤯

I still have that computer over 40 years later 😊

after he retired, he always had several ambitious plans on the boil (less charitable folks might call them “hare-brained schemes” 🙃), including a petrol-powered all-terrain tracked wheelchair for a friend who wanted to be able to travel off the beaten path under his own (metaphorical) steam. it would have ended up weighing about a tonne & absolutely would never have worked (safely), but he was determined to “help” a friend & excited to work on solving an interesting engineering challenge, once again bending metal and machinery to his purpose du jour

he was happiest noodling in his workshop, oil- & grease-stained hands deep inside a machine, wielding – or welding – a new tool of his own design. I always associated the smell of machines and ozone with his presence. until after he retired I never saw his hands unstained by years of ingrained, immovable grease

in his later years he discovered #3Dprinting and became a journeyman #maker of sorts. he was exceptionally proud (and a bit obnoxious) when he was able to “teach the professionals at #U3A a thing or two” about his new hobby. his idea of a conversation had always been (impatiently) waiting for you to take a breath so he could tell you the next thing he was interested in – usually unconnected to whatever you’d shared 💁‍♀️

he used a succession of smallish 3D printers to make many, many Japanese-inspired lanterns (into which he stuffed various strings of coloured flashing lights) and Chinese-inspired dragons, amazed & delighted that additive manufacturing was able to create interlocking objects right off the print bed – after having spent a lifetime creating sometimes-intricate interlocking components using tried-and-true subtractive manufacturing processes. he gave most of these prints away to others – whether they wanted them or not 😆

he was a fitter & turner, a boiler-maker, a repairer & maintainer, a “keeper-runnerer”, a tinkerer

and he was my father

#Vale Wes Smith ❤️‍🩹
1935-2025

#GNUWesSmith
#XClacksOverhead

@itgrrl

I’ve re-posted this on my extremely-infrequently-updated #blog just in case this masto instance ever goes away… (sorry @jerry 🙃)
 
 
Vale, Wes Smith ❤️‍🩹
https://itgrrl.com/2025/10/11/vale-wes-smith/
 
 
#GNUWesSmith
#XClacksOverhead

thank you so much to all the wonderful #FediFriends who have boosted, faved, & replied to this toot – your response has been heartwarming & a balm against the overwhelm in what some folks are still calling “these troubled times” 💕

please keep the #clacks going & the memory of my dad circulating 🙏

#GNUWesSmith
#XClacksOverhead

over 200 lovely #FediFriends have favourited this tribute to my dad, which for me in my very small pond on masto is “doin’ numbers” 😜

thank you all so much for using the #clacks & keeping the memory of my dad circulating through the æther 💕

#GNUWesSmith
#XClacksOverhead

I’m going to stop boosting the main toot about my dad so regularly now – seeing it get faved & boosted so much in the lead-up to his funeral was lovely, and all the condolences & well-wishes really made me feel like I’d been able to honour his memory amongst people who would have understood him & who appreciated his life’s work

I’ll leave it pinned for now, & I’m sure I’ll re-boost it every now & then to keep it circulating (and I’ll set up the #XClacksOverhead headers on my servers when I get a chance)

thank you all so much for using the #clacks & keeping the memory of my dad circulating through the æther 💕

#Vale Wes Smith ❤️‍🩹
1935-2025

#GNUWesSmith

@itgrrl My condolences to you and your family. He sounds like a wonderful man that was not scare of the progress of technology but instead embraced it and made the best out of it.

@VK5ZSH this is a narrow slice through his life that leaves out a lot of relationship complexity, but I wanted to focus just on the good stuff

thank you for your kind words 💕

@itgrrl sorry for your loss, my condolences 💕

@itgrrl my condolences to you. It’s not easy losing a parent even if the relationship was difficult.

I lost my mum in August and while it was in many ways a relief both for her and me, there are indeed complicated emotions.

Be kind to yourself and take comfort where you can find it.

@neill thank you, Neill 💕
@neill and condolences for your own recent loss 🧸
@itgrrl thank you. Time and support from family and friends helps. Please let me know if you need someone to talk to.
@itgrrl Sorry to hear that. I lost my dad in 2020 at roughly the same age. Your dad sounds a lot like my dad.
@M0les thank you, Miles 💕
@itgrrl well said, this is never simple, and there is something about the loss that never quite seems real even when you know it is. Take care of you & your memories.
@itgrrl I'm sorry to hear that. He sounds like he was quite a character. Please remember the good, and let the bad slip away.
@itgrrl thank you for sharing. I'm processing the health decline of my own father lately. He was also a tinkerer, so your story resonates. Lots of love!

@lpryszcz thank you, Leszek 💕

I hope you’re able to spend good quality time with your father while he’s still with you (if that’s healthy for you) 🧸

@itgrrl thank you for a small window in your father's life. Im sorry for your loss, but happy you had him in your sweet life.
@LockEx thank you, LockEx 💕
@itgrrl - That was an amazing write up. Thank you for sharing your dad's story with us.
@tinker thank you, tink 💕

GNU Wes Smith

Sorry for your loss

@purserj thank you, James 💕
@itgrrl Sounds like a wonderful person. I’m sorry for your loss.
@tmiller thank you, Todd 💕

@itgrrl
Sorry to read otf your loss.

Your toot was an tale of a most amazing father, people like him are few and far between but wonderful to know. I'm glad you have so many lovely memories of him and the impact he had on you.

@Steampunk_Prof this is a narrow slice through his life that leaves out a lot of relationship complexity, but I wanted to focus just on the good stuff

thank you for your kind words 💕

@Steampunk_Prof (because of your pfp I was very tempted to just reply with “YESSS… ⚹warble⚹ ⚹garble⚹” but I resisted 🤪)
@itgrrl
I think you probably have enough to deal with at the moment, you focus on you!

@itgrrl

GNU Wes Smith

@MrShark thank you, Jens 💕💕
 
 
(the extra 💕 is for using the clacks 🤜💥🤛‬)

@itgrrl
From the son of a WW2 soldier and later diesel fitter, there's so much that resonates there, right down to the greasy hands and TRS80 - for me, a model 1 16k *with numeric keypad*!

Kind thoughts for a life well lived.

@blingoali thank you, BlingoAli 💕
@itgrrl RIP ❤️🕯️
@theron29 děkuji, Stevez 💕
@itgrrl lovely obit for your dad. It sounds like he was a lovely man who had a lasting impact on you. Many condolences
@jmyarlett thank you, John 💕

@itgrrl

I'm very sorry for your loss, but, at the same time, I'm glad you have fond memories of him to keep. 💗

@gowin 감사합니다 거윈 💕
@itgrrl he sounds so lovely

@lizzard this is a narrow slice through his life that leaves out a lot of relationship complexity, but I wanted to focus just on the good stuff

thank you for your kind words 💕

@itgrrl

My sincere condolences. 💔

@pewnack thank you, David 💕

@itgrrl I’m so sorry for your loss.

I learned programming from my dad too, when I was 12. It set the course for my life. He would have been 99 last month.

@itgrrl what a fantastic Human being and father...

I'm sorry for your loss, and I think we've lost a goodun' there

@cryptomoose thank you, Moose 💕
@itgrrl Wonderful obituary for a strong and vital character. Thank you for sharing it, and I am really sorry for your loss.
@malmorrow thank you, Mal 💕
@itgrrl sorry for your loss. He sounds like a swell guy.
@jlin thank you, jlin 💕

@itgrrl I'm so sorry for your loss! Your Dad sounds like a genuinely great person.

I... configured my server a good while ago, to send an X-Clacks-Overhead header with every response, choosing a name randomly from a short list. I hope you don't mind, I added your Dad's name too.

May his name echo through the Clacks forevermore. As long as my servers are online, they'll do their part.

Caddy snippets: x-clacks-overhead

A man is not dead while his name is still spoken. — Terry Pratchett In honor of Sir Terry Pratchett, my servers will emit an x-clacks-overhead header with every response.

infrastructure.org

@algernon thank you, algernon 💕💕 I deeply appreciate you adding my dad’s name to your server X-Clacks-Overhead! 🥹 this is exactly what I was hoping would happen when I invoked the clacks 🤜💥🤛‬

as soon as all the funeral stuff is done & I manage to reboot my brain & get some spare cycles 😩 I’ll be adding the headers to my own servers – and I’m happy to pull in your names as well to keep them circulating through the æther 😊

#GNUWesSmith
#XClacksOverhead