Doc ImpossibleHey.
Hey, you.
Yeah, you. The person reading this. You, specifically.
Be messier and weirder. Fuck up more. And cut people a break when they're messy and weird and fuck up, if you can.
Queerness is about being messy.
Oh, also, since I've got you here:
That weird sex thing you're super ashamed of, and have never told a soul that you're into?
Like half of your friends are into it too, and are just as scared of saying anything. You could be having an interesting conversation with them right now.
Just sayin'.
It might be a quarter. But statistically, from what the research says about kink? Unless you're a shut-in, *someone* you're friends with is into it, pretty much guaranteed.
Shame sucks. Sure, talk in private, but it's just sex. It's not that big a deal.
Signed: a gal who's ace-spectrum.
King Naga Calyo Lucere-Delphi@Impossible_PhD Every time I start talking about glue fetish in a new group of kinksters, there's always someone in the chat who gets turned on by it when they've never thought about it before.
Every.
Time.
I'm good at getting my fetish *stuck* in your mind. 😈
Juniper 🏳️⚧️🌲@dragonarchitect @Impossible_PhD I'm just really suggestible and will pick up other people's kinks if they describe them, at least for a little while.
CIMB4@eruonna @dragonarchitect @Impossible_PhD ah, the kink mimicry thing that i keep failing to describe to others..
"cimba, do you have any fun kinks?"
"well, no, not exactl-"
"oh so you're like vanilla, that's fine!"
"no.. no, actually far from that"
"huh?"
pretty much any question that goes "are you into [x]?" that doesn't involve sadism i can probably answer with "well no, but actually yes!"
@CIMB4 @eruonna @Impossible_PhD I've got such a huge list of turn-ons and turn-offs--some of which are a bit unexpected by a lot of folks, that I just maintain an f-list profile for the sole purpose of communicating my kinks with others.