@sjvn my grandfather died from loungcancer from smoking.
My sister in law smokes. The other one... Has done at times. My father in law does. Whenever my kids ask them why; they give vague answers like: because it's a bad habit, because i like to relax that way etc
Both of my brothers started smoking at a young age. Whenever my children ask them, they give different variations on: "because I'm an idiot, and this is the perfect expression of it" 1/2
@sjvn so, some time ago my daughter at 6 or 7 saw her grandfather smoking and says something like "gee grandpa, guess you're an idiot" apparently he was somewhat offended by that and expressed a desire that we should teach our kids that smoking does not make you an idiot.
Personally I'm of the opinion that everyone is an idiot at times. And this specific notion about smoking is not one I'm about to disown them of.
The problem is that grandpa feels the shame when his grandkids confront him.
@sjvn When @pluralistic said he quit smoking because he realized he was burning through 2 to 3 laptops/year, this perspective boggles my mind.
I never smoked or wanted to. Both my parents and sister did. RIP.
@mvilain @sjvn @pluralistic At a much younger age I worked at a neighborhood convenience store. It was the 90s so they sold a lot of cigarettes.
After seeing local addicts daily for a few years and how much money they lost on their addiction I was never tempted to start. One couple bought 3-4 cartons a week. When I did the math it was like buying a small yacht every year.
@sjvn Actually false... their very existence is dangerous actually...
But nice joke, leave the squirrels alone though. :p