While everything is indeed horrible, you are not obligated to solely focus on the horror. The availability of a constant stream of bad news does not make that news valuable by itself. Paying constant attention is not "doing something." So if the information isn't actionable, filter it.
And yeah, I'm saying this for myself as much as anyone else.
Mastodon's ability to warp a post to something you want to respond to instead of what was said is unparalleled. Twitter may have created the waffles/pancakes phenomenon, but good lord have you people perfected it.

@mttaggart I appreciated the original post and moved on, but after that post I was curious and boi are you right, some of these answers really take a long stretch in "interpreting" your post ...

back in my teaching days I always mentioned (with a spoon of sarcasm) that the only requirement for enrolling in university is having the ability to read

@mttaggart I was recently jumped on in much the same way. Twitter-level strawman aggression. Shame because I liked the lack of that here.
@mkoek I reduce the problem by blocking people who want to introduce me to their strawman friend. It does help.
@Axomamma I was naively hoping I wouldnโ€™t need to do that here but it does work wonders ๐Ÿ˜€

@mttaggart To be fair, as of now, your post has 250+ favs and boosts. From what I can see, there are two, maybe three, initial replies that are going in the mentioned direction.

On any other platform, I'd consider this an outstandingly good signal-to-noise ratio. ๐Ÿ˜„

@Sven It's doing well on Bluesky as well without any of this kind of strawmanning

As someone whose posts routinely do well on Fedi, trust me: nobody does grievance-posting better.

@mttaggart Personally, I notice these kinds of replies/arguments pretty much everywhere, but in way higher frequency than here, both for my and other people's posts. More hostility, too. "Quality" of them might be higher here, though, so maybe Fedinauts do them "best". ๐Ÿ˜„

As an example, I've had a post on Bluesky recently that had a whopping two likes and a single three-post reply arguing against something that was only remotely in the same context as the original post.

I wonder where these differences in perception stem from or if it's ultimately "just" about milieus.

@mttaggart
Fucking mood right there. I think we all need to hear it.
@mttaggart that's why I'm out punishing my body into giving me endorphins.

@mttaggart I have a friend who *just* had a baby and was feeling bad for not knowing what was going on in the world at all.

And I said basically what youโ€™re saying: what could you possibly do with that information if you had it???

Take in what you can use. Leave the rest.

@minmi @mttaggart The old "Cone of Concern". Especially among my younger friends (I am old), I am tempted to try to make the old cone have a comeback; they really need it.

@whitemice @mttaggart

Oh wow I hadnโ€™t seen this before! This is excellent.

@whitemice @mttaggart

alt: a graphic showing a 3D cone. At the top is a red arrow pointing at the tip of the cone that reads โ€œyou are hereโ€. There is a shaded region across a first small section of the cone that reads โ€œthings over which you have some controlโ€. A shaded region just below it reads โ€œthings over which you have influenceโ€. A final shaded region reads โ€œthings over which someone you are connected to has influenceโ€ most of the cone is unshaded. Pointing at the largest section of the cone is an arrow that reads โ€œeverything else happening in the world.โ€ To the left is a large double sided arrow pointing up and down with the words โ€œvalue of knowledgeโ€. The top of the arrow, aligned with the tip of the cone, reads more , the bottom reads less. A box of text at the bottom reads โ€œthe purpose of knowledge is to inform choices; thus the value of knowledge is related to your ability to make choices related to the topic.โ€

@mttaggart Itโ€™s like pain.

Pain associated with a wound or disease is a terrible but important informational tool and can deter further damage. Did an action hurt? Thatโ€™s the signal to stop.

But nothing good comes of pressing on a bruise. What action does it inspire or inhibit? What information do you gain? An undefined sense of obligation to witness each and every horror doesnโ€™t help those affected, including yourself. Itโ€™s just pressing your thumbs deeper into the bruise.

@mttaggart yep... I can influence technology (specifically XR) so that news I pay attention to... the rest I try to be aware of through friends filtering it for me to stuff I can handle without emotional breakdown (which is very unproductive)
@mttaggart This is true when you are not the news. When Iran bombs you with ballistic missiles, paying constant attention saves your life.
@hananc Yes. That would be "actionable" information, which I specifically called out.

@hananc @mttaggart that's why they said "if the information isn't actionable".

Does your government not sound alarms or anything?

@mttaggart

A true wordโ€ฆ

@mttaggart don't focus on bad things
@mttaggart Sure. But blithely carrying on about the minutiae of your daily life while ppl are suffering big time, and not acknowledging that suffering even once, is disrespectful and akin to fiddling while Rome burns... IMO.
@sister_ratched @mttaggart That's right. And each time the boundary is different, some are resistant, some are more anxious. Closing my eyes and pushing out anything that makes me anxious is wrong. Letting a barrage of bad news destroy you is also wrong. We all have to find that line.

@mttaggart I encourage my American followers to mute or unfollow me because I am never going to shut up about or ignore their war crimes, especially when the majority of you seem to get very preachy and privileged when talking about your enemies like they aren't also just normal people.

The most American response to harsh reality and the most privileged thing you can possibly do, is by choice ignore the crimes of your own state.

@ciaranmak Don't think I was suggesting that.