Soatok DreamseekerI'm in my 30's and still have no fucking idea what would be expected of me if I ever went on a date, partly because I don't even know how to find people I might be interested in dating.
recursive 🏳️🌈@soatok honestly I think the rise of the current style of dating apps, the end of pre-Musk Twitter, and the pandemic really hurt a lot of the ways a certain kind of folks who like to write well and think about big complex stuff meet people
Advanced Persistent Teapot@recursive @soatok there were ways we could meet people before that?
@recursive @soatok yeah OKC felt like I got better matches but I don't think there was a lot of difference in how many dates actually came out of it, for me anyway.
Review from a friend (actually originally connected through OKC): "you'll make an amazing partner but boy howdy I've never seen anyone suck so much at getting dates"