Soatok DreamseekerI'm in my 30's and still have no fucking idea what would be expected of me if I ever went on a date, partly because I don't even know how to find people I might be interested in dating.
Mudlark 
@soatok I was in a similar situation to you (also 30s), just zero interest at all in dating or romance or participating in any of it. I wasn't looking or interested, but I spent enough time with a friend and like gimmechocolate said it accidentally became friendship new game +
I'm not exactly sure how dating works, in the normal sense. seems awkward. its not something I was worried about, being single is fine and good, despite societal expectations (as long as you're happy with it personally)