I talk about cops online, and I have cops hate-following me through their puppet accounts. Sometimes, they reply or DM me.πŸ€·πŸΏβ€β™‚οΈ

I talk about GOP politicians, and I have them too. Hi!

I talk about VC bros. So many fleece vests!

For the most part, people are surprisingly reasonable. I'll rant about 10 things, and they'll reply "Mostly fair. But 9 is wrong."

But the 2 things get me the most push back:
* Holding white women accountable for their own actions.
* Advocating for Black women at all.

1/N

The flip side of "presumption of guilt" when talking about Black men, is "presumption of innocence" when talking about white women.

They're both forms of racism. They both harm Black people.

One is easy to recognise *in other people.* One is hard to see *in ourselves.*

Some people have an emotional reaction when I point out that more than half of all white women voters in the US reliably vote for whichever candidate promises to harm Black people more. They get mad at me for saying this!

2/N

The US is a very racist country. It has racist systems, processes, and outcomes. That racism harms all of us, but disproportionately harms Black people.

If you want to reduce that racism, you have to understand where it's coming from.

Almost half of that racism, comes from white women. Some of the rest of it comes from white men, but is done in the name of white women.

You cannot effectively combat racism, if you don't understand and accept this.

3/N

As a Black dude, I gotta say that the dynamic I see is super weird:

1) ~50% of all white men I interact with are super open-minded and inclusive! They want less racism. β™₯οΈπŸ‘πŸΏ

2) ~50% of all white women I interact with are super open-minded and inclusive! They want less racism. β™₯οΈπŸ‘πŸΏ

3) ~50% of the white men and ~50% of the white women that I interact with are... not super open-minded.

But both the good white men and white women I interact with, are convinced that 3) is 95% men?πŸ€·πŸΏβ€β™‚οΈ

4/N

And it's not like ~95% of the white people in New York are open-minded, and ~95% of the white people in Atlanta are not open-minded. That's not how it works.

It's ~50% of the white people in New York are super open-minded, and ~50% aren't.

And it's ~50% of the white people in Atlanta are super open-minded, and ~50% aren't.

And it's not like "this whole family is open-minded, and this whole family is not open-minded." That's not how it works. It's "most families have both."

5/N

It's super weird to me that it seems like half of the white folk in this country, literally cannot see the other half, even though that's their coworkers, family members, friends, and partners. πŸ™‚πŸ™ƒ

It got me thinking: What evidence could you show to the 50% of white folk that are more open-minded, to convince them that the other 50% exists and is about half women? That Black folk are not making this up?

Poll data, viral Karen videos, and lived experience of ~40M Black folk, isn't doing it.

6/N

Then I remembered, that "evidence does not persuade." So there is no evidence that I could possibly show to convince the 50% of white folk that are super open-minded, that close to half of the other 50% of white folk that are less open-minded, are women. πŸ€·πŸΏβ€β™‚οΈ

7/7

@mekkaokereke Americans really need to unhitch this conceit stereotype that racists are froth-mouthed, southern, conservative, and not in their own house. Most of my racist experiences come from mid-Atlantic liberals oblivious to their harm.

Just like we all have to kill the cop in our heads, white people have to kill the racist in theirs.

@platanoutre @mekkaokereke
More white people need to read Dr. King's Letter from Birmingham Jail.
@jargoggles @platanoutre @mekkaokereke and β€œWhen Peace Becomes Obnoxious”. They go together really well.
@jargoggles @platanoutre @mekkaokereke Got link to text? πŸ€·πŸΌβ€β™‚οΈ
@iDGS @platanoutre @mekkaokereke
It's pretty easy to search. There's a full text version here: https://www.africa.upenn.edu/Articles_Gen/Letter_Birmingham.html
Letter from a Birmingham Jail [King, Jr.]

@iDGS @jargoggles @platanoutre @mekkaokereke

EVERYONE (but especially white folks) read Dr. King's letter from Birmingham Jail.
https://letterfromjail.com

Letter from Birmingham Jail, by Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.

Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.'s letter to 8 white church leaders, written from a jail cell in Birmingham, Alabama in 1963.

@jargoggles @platanoutre @mekkaokereke
If America was serious on equality, everyone would have read it in History at school.
@taatm @jargoggles @platanoutre @mekkaokereke Oh say can you see heterogenous America?

@jargoggles

I've said it before and I'll say it again: one of the best curriculum decisions my (heavily white) high school made was to assign Letter from Birmingham Jail as reading, rather than the usual feel-good selections from his speeches and writings.