Confidence is not "I know what I'm doing."

Confidence is "I know how to find that out" and "I know how to learn new things" and most importantly "I know when I don't know what I'm doing, so I stop and find someone who does"

Obnoxious blowhards rely on people not understanding this distinction. And they amplify it by framing actual confidence as weakness.

This may be a useful thing to talk about with certain people in your life who are being fooled by fascists.

@TechConnectify I strongly agree. it's the difference between pretending you don't need help to do anything and realizing the value in getting help doing virtually anything - that's called society and we made it for a reason.

having an answer isn't what makes you smart. it's how you got it.

@TechConnectify NASA isn't smart because they have answers to a bunch of questions. NASA is smart because they did experiments using the scientific method and went to the damn moon to get answers to those questions.
@tyzbit @TechConnectify As someone who spent years at NASA as a researcher I suspect that this will be the funniest thing I read today.
@MartyFouts @TechConnectify you probably got front row seats to the unglorious side of finding answers: getting it wrong. a lot. we have to grasp in the dark to find our way.

@tyzbit @TechConnectify It’s “experiments using the scientific method” that I find most funny; but social media doesn’t really allow the nuance that a discussion of philosophy of science and “method” requires so I will simply recommend “For and Against Method” in case you haven’t read it and say that I agree far more with Feyerabend than Lakotas.

more direct note: going to the moon was mostly an engineering exercise and didn’t really involve much science relatively.

@MartyFouts @tyzbit @TechConnectify I don't really want to get into this whole discussion as it doesn't have much to do with the initial toot, but while NASA is doing some really heavy lifting engineering wise (pun maybe intended), most of the engineering is based on science. Understanding how materials work, laws of physics, etc.
To tie the knot and connect the two: NASA is using bonkers engineering to enable sciencing where no sciencing has been done before by humbly finding "someone who does"

@nblr @tyzbit @TechConnectify We were talking about the moon landing which was nearly 60 years ago and NASA, before Apollo was cancelled, was very different than it has been since; as I experienced firsthand.

Another thing that social media doesn’t allow enough nuance to discuss is the extent to which engineering does or doesn’t stem from science (pun intended.)

One area to explore that is the history of ceramics and how the shuttle tiles were developed.

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Now I'm genuinely curious. From an outside view I can see that some things surely have changed, as in every large and evolving organization. Less risky/daring, more bureaucracy (both for better or worse). But from your perspective... what - in the brevity social media allows - would you say has changed?

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Related:

Warning that a proposed approach has downsides or talking about pitfalls of a similar experience should not be waved away as "negativity" or "being a blocker".

Wanting something to work well without doing everything twice is not "being obstructive about agile".

Saying that there is not enough time to test the proposed solution in a development environment before going to production is not "you're the reason we will miss the deadline that the new manager promised".

@prlzx @TechConnectify Also related - taking the time to make sure you understand what question you are answering/problem you are solving before diving in.
@TechConnectify Obnoxious blowhards also rely other placing their confidence in them. Knowing when you should actually rely on someone is at least as important as knowing your own limits.
@TechConnectify I've spent a large chunk of my career thinking I wasn't as good as others because I didn't know all the answers. So I would figure things out on my own. Eventually people started asking me how to do things or how I knew stuff, and that's when I realised that knowing how to find things out and learn on the go was the key. That gave me confidence.

Now when people ask me things, I'll try to show them how I find out the answer. I try to coach others in these crucial skills and help build their confidence.

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That's what good scientists and good Librarians do.

Good people in other works too, but those are the ones I've personally experienced.

@TechConnectify Confidence is, in fact, knowing what you are doing. It is also knowing when you don’t know what you are doing. Wisdom is knowing the difference and knowing what to do when you don’t know what you are doing.

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And willing to learn from your own mistakes.

There are many that can not do that, so they double down and blame others. It is never their fault.

#GOP #Insanity

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I'd add: admitting openly the limits of one's knowledge.

There's a German politician (Habeck), who's always trying to lay his cards on the table, explaining the trade-offs, risks and assumptions behind his decisions - and he's getting ridiculed for that.

It's bonkers.

You can disagree with him, make different trade-offs, perfectly fine, but ridiculing openness is just morally wrong.

@TechConnectify Yes! Or it can be simply "I don't know." Obnoxious blowhards would sooner make up an absurd bullshit answer than admit that they don't know or were wrong about something.
Also, lying without shame is passed as "telling it like it is".

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Lately I've been spending a lot of time thinking about this while looking at my resume and a whole lot of solicitations for workers.

Even though I'm only mid-career, I look back at the stuff I've done and realize that a lot of it was stuff that I didn't know how to do when I started the job, and a lot of it was stuff that my employers didn't know they needed when I started the job. We figured out a lot of stuff together, and both benefited for it.

Also, in recent years I've seen companies advertise for workers by saying things like "we need someone who has done A, B, C, and D" and unwilling to consider candidates who can clearly figure out how to do them. (The companies also use "application tracking systems" that don't seem smart enough to recognize that "C, A, B, and D" also fit the requirements.)

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The problem is, for those in the "in group" (aka white dudes) conservatism and its more extreme form, fascism, with its brutality, is rather sexy.
Regardless of who "wins" in the US, this country is already irreversibly damaged.
@TechConnectify Have already had this talk with a few folks. The moment it clicks is legit “pay no attention to that man behind the curtain” moment.
@TechConnectify 100% agree, I've been watching videos on "how to eat ass", going in blind doesn't make either party happy
@TechConnectify my confidence is "i'm 100% certain that i don't know what i'm doing"
@TechConnectify True confidence grows with the knowledge of what we don't know yet.

@TechConnectify I know this post is super old, but I just stumbled on a screenshot that I saved of it.

I really needed to read this today so I'm glad I found it again. Not being fooled by fascists, but by the self-doubt I tell myself when I don't immediately know what I'm doing.

So thanks for posting this.

(I also agree with your point about the obnoxious blowhard fascists)