@Jedigirl

The thing this is missing is that most people want others to suffer not simply because they happened to turn out fine, but because they believe that suffering **is the reason** they turned out fine. They see it as something that builds character.

Not saying their right, just saying you cant fix a problem by misunderstanding it.

@freemo @Jedigirl maybe a kind of Stockholm Syndrome
@woffs @Jedigirl @freemo It’s a coping mechanism for rationalizing why they have suffered.
@ehren @woffs @Jedigirl @freemo
Of all the rough stuff in Bojack Horseman, I think Diane's revelation about trauma cut deepest for me.