Facebook is where you realize, you don’t like the people you know.

Mastodon is where you start liking people, you have never met.

@randahl It's great to see so many people have joined recently.
@randahl Facebook was a failure.
@randahl Another way I've heard it said: FB is the people you went to high school with; Mastodon is the people you *wish* you went to high school with. :-)
@randahl Bingo. I’m growing increasingly appalled at people on FB I thought were smarter, obediently signing up for Threads.
@randahl No one has taught me more about anti-Christian attitudes and behaviors than my own Goddamned family. All that matters for us is that we are kind to them; all that matters for them is that we don't discuss the truth. That's their choice, but we see their foolishness -- my mother claims Trump never cheated on his wives. Oh well. What is important is that I tried to tell them the truth; the rest is their responsibility. Lovingkindness wins again, for my family, at least!
@randahl
LOL There's some truth in there.
@randahl That’s a great way to think of the platform differences!
@randahl @LibertyForward1 I'm not thrilled with the No Hashtags on Thread. Limited search.
@randahl just like Twitter used to be years ago. Love it here!
@randahl Facebook always had a knack of suggesting people who were horrible. Remember those kids who bullied you in school ? Here they all are !

@randahl

That hasn't been my experience.

I've actually had a good experience with Facebook. I believe that is the result of only friending people I know from real life and blocking obnoxious people in the few Facebook groups I used. Facebook also has features to keep people I know in real life who are difficult people listed as "Friends" while hiding their content and hiding my content from them.

I've gotten to know a *few* people via Mastodon because I had the good fortune to find a niche sub for ONE of my interests and for the "Local" link which Mastodon developers are trying to obscure. :-). Most of my other interests are absent from Mastodon.

So far, the most interesting conversations, like this one, that I have found on Mastodon have been through the "Explore" link.

Most "Explore" posts are by experts trying to get a message out, or people "building a brand", so that doesn't lend itself to making e-friends in my experience.

@randahl Nextdoor is where you realize good god my neighbors are psycho, I need to move.
@randahl Yup. I do still have a FB presence, but only to take part in some motorcycle groups. I deleted my main profile after getting sick of my brother in law posting right wing shit and reposting those ridiculous "warning" things.
@randahl by people you mean cats right? 😁😂
@randahl wouldn't that just be any social media which has the option to friend or follow
it's pretty subjective
@randahl a family gathering at a funeral versus a convention for a shared interest.
@lawlznet "Sure you like uncle Tom! He's your uncle!!!"
@randahl
A funny quote.
However, took me a couple of years before i blocked the first person on facebook.
Took only a few weeks before it happened here.
Still like it here. A lot actually.
😉
@randahl Facebook was also the place where you told the FB-deniers: "I don't give a shit about you if you are not here" since ~15 years. ;)
@randahl Sounds a bit less positive and cuddly, but is also an undeniable part of the truth, no?

@randahl Back when the #Birdsite was still fun, somebody posted this (and I am paraphrasing):

#Facebook is full of people you know, but wish you didn’t.
Twitter is full of people you don't know, but wish you did.

It's well past time to freshen it up with #Twitter and #Mastodon.

@randahl

I ended going on FB & posting things early in 2017. In many ways I interacted more with strangers then people I knew. Some that I ‘knew’ from college with whom I posted to on politics never even acknowledged my presence. I was already using the ‘F’ word: Fascist. It seems from the small sample I had, most everybody I knew in the WayBack were ‘conservative’. Well I was only on there to see ‘how the stories ended’. Not very well IMHO.
Masto is lovely, photos, adventures, thoughts.

@randahl it might be the best moment ever for deleting both #Facebook and #Instagram before even getting started with #Threads. Do it now before #meta has you 360.
@randahl Yes, I'm surprised how well moderated Fediverse is, and even the trending page is not a disaster
@randahl more accurate words...
@randahl I don't like anybody very much. I guess that makes me a Twitter person?
@randahl Most of my friends on Facebook are IRL and boring on social media.