It makes me so sad that so many #disabled people take on society's view of them as deficient, shameful, and deprived. We internalize and individualize systemic #ableism and then blame ourselves for our misery.

It just shows how badly a #DisabilityPrideMonth is needed...

I'm sad for my younger self because I grew up thinking the same way. And indeed even my current self: I'm not totally free of internalized ableism, probably never will be. But at least now I have a better chance of spotting it.

This was explained much better on the post where r/blind explained that blind mods can't moderate the subreddit any more.
https://www.reddit.com/r/Blind/comments/14nzwkm/they_finally_did_it_reddit_made_it_impossible_for/
They finally did it: Reddit made it impossible for blind Redditors to moderate their own sub

Since the [latest "accessibility" update to the Reddit app](https://www.reddit.com/r/modnews/comments/14n9426/), the amount and magnitude of new...

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Somebody asked me how a blind person can make a screenshot, and even complimented me on mine here.

So here's a quick PSA:

"Blind" doesn't always mean "can't see anything at all." Many blind people can at least see the difference between light and dark. Some have okay visual acuity but very little visual field. Or vice versa. All of that can be described as blind.

Many conditions affect sight and everyone is different. You can't assume much about a person if all you know is that they're blind.

Also, it's not good to compliment a disabled person for doing something you who do not have that disability think they shouldn't be able to do!

I've been called "so brave" for just walking down the street (by myself? maybe?).

It's infantalizing.

It was someone else walking down the street who said this! Did she think she was brave?? Or was it just me, alone with my white cane, who was so brave she had to grasp my arm to tell me so (also don't touch blind people, but that's a whole other PSA).

@bright_helpings This, so much.
No, people, you're not being kind to me when you tell me how inspiring I am for just frying an egg and eating it on my own.
You might as well be implying you thought I am less than an animal, unable to even feed myself without a sighted person's assistance.
Can we have a shoutout to "You're so amazing! If I went blind, I'd probably kill myself," too? Because look at that. Think about it for a moment. Then tell me how the fuck that's a compliment! How!
@Mayana @bright_helpings The really wild thing is that blind people who are hearing say this about me all of the time… Things like "if I were Deafblind I would kill myself." Or "you're so inspiring to live on your own!" When if sighted people do the same things to them they become angry… Yet somehow… It becomes acceptable… To do it to me.
@Pawpower Yeah it's disgusting. Where we should be in solidarity, people are instead desperate for any little power imbalance that goes "in our favor" for once. @Mayana