I like the fact that mastodon.social is the biggest instance, but I would leave for an instance that is paid only, say $10/month, has a cool domain name, and thus can afford to raise the rate limits.

Mastodon.social feels like early Twitter both culturally (good), and fail-whale-wise (not good).

@gruber been trying out omg.lol but would love to find one that’s both paid and prevalent
@atharv @gruber I was going to promote https://omg.lol too, fun set of indie services too
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@jan I love the me.dm domain name, but Medium is a venture-backed company. I don't trust that they'll be around, with the same ideals, for the long run.
@gruber Btw. migrating 28k followers to another instances takes around 3 days cause of the federation :) your target instance should have enough power to handle such a migration. I've supported companies migrating 50k+ followers.
@gruber I'd recommend https://social.lol/, run by @adam of https://home.omg.lol. He's one of the nicest guys on the Web and runs a great service with cool features. 👍
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@martinfeld @gruber @adam I second the omg.lol / social.lol recommendation.
@gruber Yes, the lag of stuff coming to this feed vs my podcast account is quite large, and makes me feel I’m getting an inferior experience. A paid option may make some sense especially as you said if it comes with higher rate limits.
@gruber what could be cooler than @[email protected]?
@radu I’ve given that a lot of thought but I don’t want to be responsible for the instance. I think.
@gruber @radu Get a hosted server. I use masto.host, and it works great.
You should probably have a different domain though for SEO reasons. Like daringfireball.social.
@gruber @radu Aren’t there managed hosting providers for Mastodon that would fit the bill?

@gruber @radu

$6.00 a month from @mastohost https://masto.host. Took me just a few minutes last Friday. Great service.

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@gruber I see I was late to the party with this recommendation. And realize in hindsight that the $6.00 plan wouldn't work for you. But the higher level plans probably would and it's super easy.

@gruber @radu Consider having another company host it, e.g. https://masto.host/ for $6/month.

Works great if you host on a dedicated domain. If you want to use the daringfireball.net apex domain, you'd need more fancy hosting which lets you set `WEB_DOMAIN` and some config on your blog webserver.

https://docs.joinmastodon.org/admin/config/#web_domain

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@gruber You should checkout https://omg.lol. It’s $20/year and you get a Mastodon account and so much more.
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@jmj @gruber @film_girl and Merlin @hotdogsladies is here for $20 a year
@phils @jmj @gruber @hotdogsladies oh shit, I got one of these accounts! I didn’t remember it included Mastodon!
@film_girl see you on the good side. It’s never been down so far - unlike other instances….
@gruber Very happy with my local mastodon.berlin instance so far. Aren't there any Philly-based ones that you would consider? You're not going to leave your hometown soon I suppose ;-)
@gruber I am unsure of the possible downsides of a 1-20 user instance, but I am enjoying using masto.host to host an instance on one of my domains for $9/mo.
@jwolman @gruber this is seeming more and more like the idea best play. I'm not crazy about the local timeline on a huge instance. I guess I could use filters but would love a very small and active local TL.
@jwolman @gruber With Gruber’s following, a $9/month instance would *not* suffice.
@david @gruber this is something I was wondering about - I know having a lot of users on an instance is more demanding, but are a lot more computing resources needed if you are followed by (or follow, I suppose) a ton of people? As you suggest, this is not going to be an issue for me but might be a problem for high profile mastodoners.
@jwolman @gruber
Absolutely. The way mastodon works, it has to notify every instance on which you have a follower of every post you make, receive a request for every like/tweet/boost you receive and every post from anyone you follow.
@david @gruber makes sense. Sounds like a recipe for slashdotting if someone on a small instance goes viral.
@jwolman @gruber
100% happens. Also happens to any site they link to as every follower’s instance fetches a preview!
This architecture is why the stats for a 28 user instance look like this!
@jwolman @gruber i’m doing the exact same thing and it’s been excellent if you don’t count the emails to approve trends that i failed to configure at first lol

@gruber

I'm working with some people who trying to set up an instance which is a member-owned co-op. A bit of spreadsheeting suggests that for a large-ish instance you could run just fine on $5/month.

@timbray @gruber I’ve been hoping that within another few months, membership organizations that already run some technical resources (like email boxes or forwarding) would add "Mastodon instance" to their package. I expect only a small %age of members would want it, but it would a great tool to encourage sign-ups if run professionally.
@glennf @timbray @gruber It would be nice to see it as part of iCloud+ but that would necessitate a big client software change on System Settings & etc (should Messages support fediverse? Mail? neither seems quite right) … so MacOS 15 & ilk? Quite a waiting period.
@glennf @timbray @gruber I’d love it if a company like @fastmail offered Mastodon hosting. They’ve had my email business for more than a decade, and this feels like a natural extension for them.
@seibert @glennf @timbray @fastmail Something akin to Fastmail is exactly what I'm thinking. If it were actually run by Fastmail, all the better.
@glennf lol I left this thread hours ago with this same idea in my head
@glennf @gruber @seibert @timbray @fastmail I’ve been paying to support xoxo.zone for this reason.
@glennf @gruber @seibert @timbray @fastmail offering their own Mastodon server would push me over the edge to finally start using Fastmail.
@gruber @seibert @glennf @timbray @fastmail there are some paid Mastodon hosting services out there, and presumably there’s about to be a lot more. Would that appeal? Your own instance, but pay to make the actual care and feeding someone else’s problem.

@mikemacleod @gruber @seibert @glennf @fastmail

Exactly. But there's also the hypothesis that if you find the right instance with the right crowd on it, you've got a sort of neighborhood. Thus instances like tech.lgbtq - I've seriously considered a tiny instance just for myself & nuclear family but the jury is out.

@timbray @gruber @seibert @glennf @fastmail am I weird in that the local timeline on almost any instance holds no interest for me?

I guess it might be fun to run a hometown instance for a group of friends or something, but social graphs don’t usually have firm edges.

A bunch of small instances with some relays might be a better fit?

@timbray @gruber mmm. I over speccd my instance at $24/mo but now I am using it to lift multiple things. Helps that I am ancient internet era so this is trivial compared to running your own sendmail service. The trickiest thing is deciding how much I want to open it up to other people.

@scanner @timbray @gruber

Do you spend $24 a month on a cloud-provided machine?

I ask because I instead chose to run a 32 GB machine at my house and that achieves the same purpose: add new services (such as Mastodon and, most recently, Ghost) with minimal incremental cost.

@ketan @timbray @gruber I am moving almost all of the services I run out of my house to cloud providers. Costs more but at my age I am looking to reduce stress and stuff I have to maintain myself for all the services I run. Tailscale also helps me blur the line between those environments where I feel like I can handle the personal load.

@scanner @timbray @gruber

I get the sentiment but I am still curious why you think managing 1 machine in the cloud is simpler than 1 at home?

Power maintenance? Or is there something else?

@ketan @timbray @gruber @timbray I have 10 hours of battery and it is not enough. System maintenance. Hard drives failing. Business quality network to my house is expensive. When I am traveling and anything happens I am screwed. All our email is down. I have five servers and two clusters at home and over 40tb of disk. Just getting out of the business of hardware in the house potentially failing. It is not one more server. It is yet another production service in my home.
@timbray @gruber at Discourse, it was originally $10/month to get a machine to host a "small" community, but over time it crept down to $5 due to competition in the space. So this is accurate based on my lived experience.
@timbray That jibes with my gut feeling that $10/mo would be profitable for someone.
@timbray I registered my interest in cosocial.ca a couple of months ago and had been wondering how it was going. Any status info you can share?
@timbray I think I'd prefer a straight-up for-profit paid service, but a co-op model is tempting too. But either way, something that is clearly and obviously sustainable simply through paying users. That's the key.

@gruber @timbray a small community Mastodon server, where patrons get a special tick mark next to their usernames? 😬

Seriously now, I am very wary of smaller instances due to opinionated admins. And I’ve been running a test instance for a month now, but hesitant to self-host or run a community one because I don’t want the admin overhead (or the legal hassles in case something goes south).

@gruber @timbray I’ve been wondering how many folks would pay for a server with transparent expenditures, paid content moderators and documented appeal/due-process.
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