I used to think I was cis and assumed that all dudes want to be girls. Now I know I’m trans and still assume all dudes want to be girls.

@rooster the replies to this thread are gonna be girls, either now or later

but for real if i'd thought to ask some of the cis dudes in my life how often they thought about being girls before i transitioned, i could have saved myself some time. had the conversation after with a few, and the one that i'll remember went like this:

"so have you ever thought about what it'd be like to be a woman?"

"yeah, of course. once or twice."

"a week, right?"

"no. like… ever."

@vyr @rooster laughing and crying here
@h5e @vyr @rooster
toots with threatening aura
@Staren @h5e @rooster real Dorley Hall coffee mug energy here πŸ˜„β˜•οΈ
@vyr @h5e @rooster this corner of transfem mastadon's energy is like
@Staren @vyr @h5e my goal for whatever corner of any social media I am on

@rooster @vyr @h5e
@zmbush
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did we do this? β€‹

@Staren @rooster @vyr @h5e @zmbush I'm sure we had *absolutely nothing* to do with that.

Probably.

Possibly.

Weeell, perhaps...we...skewed the scale...just a teensy bit?...

@OctaviaConAmore @Staren @rooster @vyr @zmbush Move fast and break things. And by things I mean eggs.
@h5e @Staren @rooster @vyr @zmbush We're not breaking the egg-prime-directive as long as the eggs just *happen* to break in our presense, are we?
@OctaviaConAmore @h5e @Staren @vyr @zmbush I love the idea of someone being so powerfully trans that they just spontaneously break eggs around them

@OctaviaConAmore @h5e @zmbush @rooster @Staren torn between the feminine urge to point out that "egg-cracking" culture is as good a way to shove someone back in the closet as any other unwanted interrogation of gender, and the reasonable feminine assumption that anyone in this thread is asking for it

just be a good and loud example, ladies πŸ˜‡

@vyr @OctaviaConAmore @h5e @zmbush @Staren doing my best to show the world that you can be a parent and in your late 30s and still transition and thrive.

@rooster Honestly seeing you on mastodon was one of my inspirations for exploring gender for myself beyond just "not guy". So I'd say you're doing a good job at that.   

@vyr @OctaviaConAmore @h5e @Staren