Something quite serious now.

For the past 2 years on the birdsite, I've enjoyed being part of Sarah Millican's #JoinIn - there for anyone on their own over the festive season who would like to join in a group chat to help pass the day.

We've had some great times, and I'm planning to support it here too this year.

If you're lonely, just post #JoinIn so we can spot you, or search for the #JoinIn hashtag, and just join in!

Good idea? Give it a BOOST!

Sarah Millican's website, if you're interested.

https://sarahmillican.co.uk/

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Finally found the source of this image which has been widely shared on social media since 2014:

#Attribution: https://www.flickr.com/photos/arslanahmedov/13733634095

"Your body is away from me, but there is a window open from my heart to yours." - Rumi

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Ty, Xmas gets harder each year. I try to pretend it's just a normal day so don't usually do the Join In but am aware of it.

@bps_artish Great idea, following the hashtag!

@bps_artish I've done the #JoinIn for the past few years, I do go elsewhere for Xmas, but I've gotten some good online folks from that hashtag.

I asked Sarah Millican is she was moving from the #DeadBird site but unsurprisingly no reply. I guess my timing was off, or too many in her feed to respond to.

@bps_artish What a smashing idea. Bravo πŸ‘
@bps_artish Great idea. I'll keep boosting until Christmas day. #JoinIn
@bps_artish Never heard of this … seems like such a nice idea!
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Yes! Very good idea...! πŸ₯°πŸ‘β€οΈ
Will boost...!
#JoinIn

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What a superb idea.

When you're alone the holidays can exaggerate one's feeling of being alone, and anything that helps to relieve this can only be good

@bps_artish whilst I’m with people on the day before and after I will make sure I pop in to say hello and spread some Christmas cheer, well done you for taking up the responsibly of carrying it over here 😊
@juliacreatesjoy You make it sound like I planned this as a great altruistic action! I was just musing on it as we got into December ... and the rest seems to be history!! πŸ˜‚
@bps_artish the best good deeds are the accidental ones that happen just because you’re thinking of others, you should be proud no matter the intention it seems to be working out pretty damn well 😊
@juliacreatesjoy Thank you. Seriously, thank you. 😊
@bps_artish you’re welcome. May you have a happy weekend 😊

@bps_artish I love #JoinIn. I'm lucky enough to have my Dad, but I like to dip in and out during the Christmas week and see what's what. After Christmas I'll be making the jump to Mastodon completely.

I think Sarah will probably set up here at some point. 😊

@Gaina_Cee ... and we'll be waiting for her, with a mug of tea. πŸ‘

@Gaina_Cee @bps_artish I'm the same, I go to family on the day, and relax on Boxing Day. But like to drop by #JoinIn every so oftent.

On the other platform I'm still in touch with a few folk from that hashtag

@hicoo @Gaina_Cee I am too, people I consider friends now. People I never knew until we all took part in this. And a few shy people we dragged into the conversations that told me later how much it meant to them that someone bothered. Small things, easy things, we just have to care.

@bps_artish @Gaina_Cee Absolutely, online friends are still friends, and I've had some great conversations on the #JoinIn thread. Someone who is a gardener, grew #Sunflowers through the spring and named each after the people he spoke to. The photos were great and we all connected over it.

I hope Sarah M comes on over too.

@hicoo @bps_artish @Gaina_Cee It's summer here in NZ and very soon I'll have some pics of sunflowers I planted on the 22nd of November, in memory of my favourite author Bryce Courtenay. Every year I plant sunflowers on his anniversary, and this year was his tenth πŸ˜”

@WirlOfWirls @bps_artish @Gaina_Cee hey, it's cold, dark and damp here in the northern hemisphere and I'm ready for spring. I'm not a winter person.

I was about to say I don't think I know Bryce Courtenay, so just looked him up - I've read the Power of One and seem the movie many times, thank you for the reminder of how much I enjoyed that book.

@bps_artish What a great idea. Kudos.
@b2run Not Mine!! Sarah Millican's!! I just jumped onto the bandwagon and thought we ought to try it here too as it's such a friendly and supportive place!
@bps_artish It was a great place to jump. Thanks again.
@bps_artish what a lovely idea!❀️❀️
@bps_artish If you’re alone this year, would it be okay if I stopped by and borrowed up 4 chairs? Thanks
@bps_artish how wonderful and what a generous thing to do #JoinIn
@bps_artish I will be alone during the Christmas week. Made it through this year’s solo Thanksgiving with ease. Having something to #JoinIn sounds like fun, and supportive.
@bps_artish I'm one of those people who's lucky to have family around at Christmas - in fact sometimes it's a bit overwhelming - but I'd *really* like to hide away for a while and #JoinIn too if that's OK?
@Annela Why not? Sounds like we're all invited. 😊
@bps_artish Wondering if Discord is a better #JoinIn option - albeit if someone here doesn’t want to follow the hashtag because of content, they could just block the hashtag. I didn’t participate in #JoinIn on Twitter and am #NewHere so this is me talking out of my butt a bit.
@bps_artish what a lovely idea. πŸ’•
@bps_artish We can also do a #JoinIn on here too for anyone on their own over the festive season.
@bps_artish I was wondering if anyone did anything like this for people alone at Xmas, so it’s nice to have found this.

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This is such a lovely idea. #JoinIn

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Terrific idea. I've always thought it's a lovely thing for Sarah Milican to do - and it's also a lovely thing for you to do ❀️
@bps_artish Glad to see it'll be going on over here too!
@bps_artish Excellent to hear that #JoinIn will be coming here to Mastodon. Definitely a Good Thing.
@bps_artish very good idea... Christmas is a tough time for a lot of people for a lot of different reasons.
@bps_artish Hello yes I am alone over the festive days, have been so for years. It’s not easy. In fact, it gets more difficult with each passing year. πŸ˜” #JoinIn
@SaddlerFan @bps_artish I send you this poem hoping you understand, "you are loved by many," even if you have not met them.
@bps_artish Yet another reason for me to love Sarah Milican. I always thought she was joy to watch on the panel shows. Wish we got more of them here in the States.