Wow. This needs to be read by everyone who joined Mastodon in the last week: https://www.hughrundle.net/home-invasion/
Home invasion - Mastodon's Eternal September begins

The fediverse is dealing with a huge wave of Twitter people bringing toxic ideas with them.

tl;dr (but please read)
"The tools, protocols and culture of the fediverse were built by trans and queer feminists."

"The culture and technical systems were deliberately designed on principles of consent, agency, and community safety."

@irwin

I question the author's premise that trans and queer people built the Fediverse. I've met many CIS developers over the years who wanted a more FOSS-based, scalable technology, and were not
remotely focused on protecting sensibilities from being triggered by communication with the rest of the world.

https://www.hughrundle.net/home-invasion/

Home invasion - Mastodon's Eternal September begins

The fediverse is dealing with a huge wave of Twitter people bringing toxic ideas with them.

@irwin

And I just find it odd that people who insisted they had a better model for social networks, are now deeply disturbed that millions suddenly agree.

The simple answer for people who feel overwhelmed by their success is simply ban everyone from existing servers (with some advanced warning, please).

New servers will replace them. All fixed!

@shoq @irwin but what does that have to do with the queer- and trans-friendly features that *do* exist in the fediverse having been added by queer and trans people (and allies) who wanted those features?

@vanderZwan @irwin

Respectfully, that sounds anecdotal. Is there evidence to support it? And even if true, what's the relevance of it? Mad props for the contributions to humanity, but those features are useful to any community now. Those who invent or built things, (technical, social, and theistic) throughout history have often thought they can control who uses their inventions, and how they use them. It almost never works as they expect.

@shoq @irwin Oh great, we have entered the "find objective proof" phase of the internet discussion. It's like the [this is wrong/irrelevant/I've always said this] stages of scientific acceptance.

You realize the topic you're responding to is "this was a safe haven for queer, trans and otherwise marginalized people, and that is now under threat", and the only thing you focus on is "wHaT aBoUt CiS FOSS DeVeLoPeRs' CoNtRiBuTiOns tO tHe fEdIvErse"? As if we CIS people have anything to worry about.

@vanderZwan @irwin
Sorry, but the post I responded to, and the reason I responded to it, don't align well with your strawman characterization. I will respond if you reframe it as discussion, and not a beacon meant to attract dogpiles.

I've been to this rodeo.

@shoq @vanderZwan @irwin Shoq, wow, our paths haven't crossed since your attempts to get rid of #p2's diversity focus back in the day. Hiiiiii!

Yes there's plenty of evidence that queer- and trans-friendly features like content warnings were designed built by queer and trans users. For example, 2017's "Lessons (so far) from Mastodon", which also links out to some primary sources

https://medium.com/a-change-is-coming/lessons-from-mastodon-for-independent-social-networks-ae2d4ccf8f72

Lessons (so far) from Mastodon for independent social networks

Originally written May 2017

Medium

@vanderZwan @shoq @irwin @jdp23

Thanks for sharing these blogs 💜 I really appreciate that 5 years ago mastodon was self-describing as 'twitter without nazis'. That's how I've described it to my friends since I joined.

But within I week I've gone from 'why is there no QT/everyone should join' to 'thank god there's no QT and I'm not telling anyone else'.

Not to say I fully get what the community is going through, but I 💯 hear you

@jdp23 @vanderZwan @irwin
I never tried to do that all. I tried to make others realize that #p2 could be a larger community for the public Liberal good, and you simply reacted like that I was some threat to your papacy.

The core issue for me is how the needs of everyone, not just marginalized communities, can be protected from abuse, without trampling on our collective ability to express ourselves without armies of hall monitors dogpiling us.

Give it tme. More servers will serve everyone.

@shoq @vanderZwan @irwin

Right, that's the core disagreement now as it was then. I think you get to something that works for everybody by prioritizing the desires and needs of marginalized communities. You think it's just as important to prioritize privileged cis white people.

More servers with cis white admins catering to cis white audiences -- like the mostly-white mostly-cis "suggested follows" on most servers -- serve some people more than others.

@vanderZwan @irwin Background here: #p2 was a progressive Twitter hashtag Tracy Viselli and I started back in 2009 with an explicit goal of using Twitter to engage with communities that were marginalized by the progressive blogosphere.

Shoq thought that was scary to a lot of white people (true) and the "public Liberal good" would be better served by making it less explicitly diversity focused.

http://www.talesfromthe.net/jon/?p=347

Liminal states :: The #p2 Hashtag and Strategies for Progressives on Twitter

embracing apparent contradictions, diversity and change

@jdp23 @vanderZwan @irwin

Straw, Jon, Where did I prioritize white audiences, simply because I am not prioritizing those who want to blot out offensive and triggering speech with solutions that simply cannot and will not scale?

They are already failing to scale, which is precisely why we're having this discussion now. Why can't we all just agree that we're all about to learn about and build something new, and try to be at least respectful of everyone's needs and views as we work it out?

@jdp23 despite a bad start, and a worse history on birdsite for us, I think we could both help others understand these issues without feeling they are being preached at, condescended to, or scolded. It's going to take years to evolve this DSN thing out of the laboratory. I'd like to see it happen without the kinds of tong-wars, dog piles, and shit posting brigades we know can happen so easily on social media. I'm game to try if you are.
@shoq fair enough! agreed that it's going to take years and that Mastodon in this moment is an interesting place. so, let's give it a try!
@jdp23 That made me happy. Thank you Jon. I really believe one of our first priority has to be finding some kind of structure that supports benign monetization so moderation isn't voluntary. If it came from advertising, that alone would help communities thrive. The problem with Twitter wasn't the ads. In fact, they were vital for encouraging moderation.
@shoq Uhhh, and I question your premise that trans and queer people protecting their privacy from fascists who stalk and doxx them are really just snowflakes protecting their "sensibilities" because they're too fragile to exist in the real world.
@irwin I really get this, and thanks to all those people. I feel I've come home.

@irwin It reminds me a lot of a phenomena here in Austin where, if you moved here more than seven years ago, you are required by law to complain about all the new people moving here and wrecking the place. Just like people complained about people like you when you first moved here.

I get it. But I've also been using the internet fairly regularly since 1988.

@arclight @irwin sort of, but I don't think what the article describes is quite the same thing as Eternal September (which is a get-off-my-lawn thing, like you said).

The phenomenon of "small internet forum goes viral and gets overrun with tourists who don't get or care about the subculture" has been a thing for ages.

It's why the best subreddits tend to be the ones with the heaviest moderation: they filter out most of the people who don't care about what the core point of the subreddit is.

@arclight @irwin and in this case, the "locals" are already people who have very good reasons to feel worried about having their safe spaces get taken away from them.
@vanderZwan @irwin The whole point of federating is to define specific communities, recognizing that one size cannot possibly fit all, letting the membership or admins choose who they connect with. Not sure what the right answer is for dealing with such an influx of refugees - some combination of tolerance, vigilance, and isolation.
@vanderZwan @irwin My recollection of the Eternal September was a ton of classist comic-book-guy AOL-hatred. For whatever reason, I never saw anywhere near the horrors described by others. Not saying that it didn't happen, just that I saw much more mean-spirited overreaction than the problem they complained about.

@arclight @irwin I'm not sure if you're talking about last week on Mastodon, your experience in Austin, or something else.

Anyway, unless you actually represent a minority who has to worry about their safe space being taken away from them, saying that you haven't experienced this is basically just describing the privilege of not ever being at the receiving end that kind of bigotry, no?

Speaking as a white-passing hetero cis-male person who also only experiences these things indirectly

@vanderZwan @irwin All I'm saying is that I don't see my experience as necessarily typical, a counter to "if I didn't see it, it didn't happen". It's going to be an uncomfortable few weeks as people find their respective lunch tables. Most of the problems will be from ignorance not malice. Still, the problems are real, more for some communities than others. Difficult to distinguish "your behavior is threatening my community" from "get off my lawn" :/
@arclight @irwin As I was reading the article, I was thinking it's a lot less like that newcomers phenomenon (which we have up here in Seattle too) and more like when I moved to Qatar and complained about how the lack of street names is a problem for non-locals. I wasn't incorrect, but I was also kinda out of line assuming I had all the answers.
@irwin Super well-written piece with some great points, which should help recent arrivals to empathize with folks who've been here a while
@irwin i'm one of those people who've come over - i've tried to adopt a tread-lightly mentality, especially at first. but i do see a lot of people coming over and trying to recreate twitter, both in terms of mindset and in character of their posts. the minor brouhaha over one instance banning journa.host encapsulated that to me -- two mindsets about the digital town square (one of which, journalists, was the dominant one on twitter) crashing into one another.
@grilledscheese_ @irwin can you say more about this? Which instance disconnected journahost? What’s the backstory here?

@peepstein @irwin i dont know the entire backstory but did read this thread on it: https://bananachips.club/@nev/109294468863000432

which kicked off, naturally, some discussion on what journalists should be doing on here, how it is and is not like twitter, etc.

nev (@[email protected])

Content warning: Fediblock, journalism

bananachips.club
@irwin @simon thanks for sharing and putting the context out there. It's for sure helpful to know and realize all this!

@irwin It feels that the whole point of this federated system is that if people from group A (old-timers) don't like what people from group B do (newcomers), there's always a way to separate their servers to two weakly connected subnetworks. There may be "old-rite" servers that don't federate with "new-rite" servers, both groups happy. No?

Say, there are servers now that support LaTeX, and those that don't. Maybe that's ok? (Just thinking aloud :)

@ampanmdagaba @irwin No, it's never okay to support LaTeX

@irwin "It's hardly surprising that the sorts of people who have been targets for harrassment by fascist trolls for most of their lives built in protections against unwanted attention when they created a new social media toolchain."

Have those protections really been built in though? Maybe I don't know enough about them, but to me the security measures seem just slightly better than twitter's.

@irwin "and starting to draft new Rules and Terms of Use for the server to make explicit things that previously "everybody knew" implicitly because we previously could acculturate people one by one."

Why didn't they just close registrations?

@irwin "Someone else had posted a screenshot of it on Twitter. Nobody thought to ask if I wanted that."

They shouldn't have done that but it's also naive to post things publicly on the internet for many years, don't close it off at all, and then be surprised when people eventually abuse that it's public.

@powersource @irwin Reading this saddened me, because I can empathise entirely. I was never on Twitter but hadn't been active here either since 2018. And now i feel like a colonizer, even though i don't want to be a party-crasher or for Mastodon to be anything more than what it has been until now - that's the Mastodon I want to be a part of. I am grateful we have been made welcome here.

@irwin this is an interesting read, but it's also like.. yes, as something goes from small to big it changes, that's natural; the best you can try to do is control how it changes.

But also, this is just analogous to someone's blog post being widely shared, if it's public & good, people will want to share.

@thisismissem @irwin everything in life has a cycle: start - growth - high meridian- decline - death. Some things have very fast cycles, some have slow cycles. Some have round cycles, some have skewed cycles
@irwin thanks for sharing. An excellent read and I really must remember my manners here.
@irwin I mean, it sounds whiny. things change. Sorry.
@irwin
I joined Mastodon a couple of years ago. It's gone from this to this in a week.
@irwin
"[Twitter ppl] have been taught to behave in certain ways. To chase likes and retweets/boosts. To promote themselves. To perform. All of that sort of thing is anathema to most of the people who were on Mastodon a week ago. ... This means there's been a jarring culture clash all week as a huge murmuration of tweeters descended onto Mastodon in ever increasing waves each day."
https://www.hughrundle.net/home-invasion/
Home invasion - Mastodon's Eternal September begins

The fediverse is dealing with a huge wave of Twitter people bringing toxic ideas with them.

@irwin
"To the Twitter people it feels like a confusing new world, whilst they mourn their old life on Twitter. They call themselves "refugees", but to the Mastodon locals it feels like a busload of Kontiki tourists just arrived, blundering around yelling at each other and complaining that they don't know how to order room service. We also mourn the world we're losing."
https://www.hughrundle.net/home-invasion/
Home invasion - Mastodon's Eternal September begins

The fediverse is dealing with a huge wave of Twitter people bringing toxic ideas with them.

@irwin very eye opening, all us newbies should read and take note
@irwin I think the point about folks previously coming in at a rate at which they could be acculturated is key. When growth outstrips that rate, its a crossing-the-rubicon moment for lots of online spaces.
@irwin That was also experienced as a mutual-aid moment within the Newsvine community, with the pre-existing folks banding together to train newcomers in the norms of the new space and mend the connective tissue of the old social network.

@josh @irwin Yes. You see that with CWs. One newcomer renamed it to Content Wrappers, got a bunch of feedback, changed his mind and deleted the toot.

If, however, you get an influx of people that keep renaming the thing faster than you can explain the whats and hows, you’ll “lose” it.

What stings are people who flee Twitter for its hostility but tell you to “just accept that things are going to change” without doing any effort to adapt.

That attitude is what makes Twitter a hellscape.

@irwin I understand the feeling. We are campers and now the motor homes take over the campings. They don’t know the rules how to behave on a camping and every thing is changing
@irwin deeply helpful. Thank you for the link.

@irwin Nice article. I gently suggested to a fellow twitter migrant who was suggesting building 'real' communities, that there already are 'real' communities here and promptly got chided by a twitter big hitter.

I suspect the lack of dopamine hits on Masto will result in a slow reverse trickle for many.

@LizEllisPhD @irwin

Irwin, thank you for the share, gave me some things to think about as a new user and an interesting thread to read!

Liz, you make a good point there! I do wonder though if the new platform won't...deprogram... many of the new users as they discover the new dopamine hit from actual human engagement and conversation rather the being churned through a dopamine mill by a larger company intent on making them a product?

@LizEllisPhD @irwin

😄 "Twitter Big Hitters"

I remember several of them flouncing after a week or so, during earlier influxes from over there. I look forward to them doing so again, and soon. They're annoying and demanding as hell and I'm here *precisely* because I'm not interested in their antics or how they think I should be living my online life. 😴

@irwin i thought there will be info about how to add a linkable link to info… btw mb u know???
@irwin this was really excellent and a bit more of something I was trying to get at with my own post yesterday. I hope people read it, both old and new.
@irwin I'm not trying to negate anyone's feelings, but I found that decidedly unhelpful.
@irwin this is excellent and sobering. Personally I am grateful to be here, grateful it exists and I will do all I can, in my tiny little way, to positively contribute, do no harm and keep in mind all the work that has gone into this community before I got here.
Not sure the comparison with Eternal September is accurate. Eternal September was a massive influx of new users who had never used anything like Usenet (or even anything like the Internet more generally) before, and didn’t necessarily know what to expect or how to behave online.

Here, we’re seeing users who are well accustomed to Twitter, with some of them (not all! thankfully) expecting the Fediverse to be basically the same thing as Twitter (apart from the absence of Elon Musk). It’s not that they don’t know how to behave, it’s that they expect to behave as they used to do before.

I’d argue it’s actually worse, because new users not accustomed to anything are normally willing to learn, whereas users already accustomed to something else may be reluctant to change.

@irwin

It is really important that people use the CW button a lot (for discussions of politics, sexuality, etc). People must learn to behave.