Your reminder that the fediverse does not tolerate transphobes, terves and other gender-critical nonsense.

Trans lives matter, trans people are welcome here, and trans people built this place. If you don’t agree, you do not belong here.

@stragu I’m new here today. Sounds like a great place. 🏳️‍⚧️
@stragu
The Internet wouldn't exist without queer people. Inclusivity is a survival trait in a complex world!
@stragu What id a terve?
@Rubi
Terves is a plural of TERF, short for Trans Exclusionist Radical Feminist.
That's just transphobes who believes trans women are men in disguise to rape lesbians and trans men are women who just can't handle being a woman in a patriarcal world.
They are highly toxic and are known to even harass cis women who don't look exactly like they think cis women should look like (broad shoulders, long face, being tall... things like that...)
Their fights overlap a lot with alt-right ones, if not completly.
@zorume Ah ok. Thank you for the explanation!
@Rubi @stragu Fanciful plural of TERF, invented when Twitter decided TERF was a slur
@ghost_bird @Rubi did Twitter block the use of the term “TERF”??
@stragu @Rubi It was added to their list of auto-moderated slurs at one point, thanks to mass reporting by transphobes. I don’t know if that got reversed eventually
@ghost_bird @stragu @Rubi I don't think it's the case currently.
@awkwardlefty_cj @ghost_bird @stragu @Rubi I use the term on twt fairly regularly (there are loads of TERFs there after all 🤢) & haven't gotten in trouble for it. I do remember a bunch of whining and crying from said TERFs about being called that tho (may they cry even more lmao idc)
@stragu @ghost_bird @Rubi No, but a bunch of transphobes pretend to get really offended by it and call it a slur (even as several more identify with the term).
@stragu Escapee from the bird place here. Is there a way of following a conversation here? I'm reluctant to respond in case I'm repeating what others say, I prefer to read comments first and then add my two bobs worth.
@platypusadmirer it’s tricky with the fediverse because replies don’t always show below a post as they don’t necessarily all reach the server your are on. One way to check is to open the public link of the post (if it’s public) to see everything that people publicly replied.
@stragu Thank you very much this is a huge learning curve for me.
@platypusadmirer pleasure! Don't hesitate to ask questions and tag them with hastags like "question" or "feditips" or "newhere"... Many people around here happy to help out 🙂

@stragu
> replies don’t always show below a post as they don’t necessarily all reach the server your are on

This is annoying UX. I'm guessing it's by design, to reduce the data your instance has to store. But I'm sure there'd be a way to view complete threads using the same plumbing a web browser uses. Posts that weren't already stored by the instance could be purged from the database if they're not viewed again within, say, 24 hours.

@platypusadmirer

@strypey It's actually due to instances blocking/silencing other instances.

E.g. a user from other.instance makes a post, and your.instance don't block or silence other.instance. Then, a user from blocked.instance (which your.instance blocks but other.instance doesn't block) replies to the post on other.instance. You will be able to see the post on other.instance, but you won't see the reply from blocked.instance because your admin is deliberately blocking it from being processed on your.instance.

@delve That's one possible reason, there are others, eg someone has posted followers-only and you're not following them.

But there have been times when all such explanations could be ruled out. I think it's Mastodon policy not to reconstruct full threads if that requires showing posts that aren't already in your instance's database. Something to do with stopping people from seeing posts the author doesn't want them to see, through a third instance or something? 👋

@stragu I *literally* just added a whole domain to https://mblock.toot.lgbt/domains because the admin barged into a thread spouting 'terf is a slur' bs
@admin nice one! Did you share it with a fediblock hashtag? Which one was it?
@stragu it was sleepy.cafe. I added it to http://mblock.toot.lgbt but can’t remember if I’ve #fediblock
@admin yep, looks like a cesspool.
Had a look at a few profiles who reached us, there's a lot of ableist and queerphobic language + apology of violence in posts and bios.
@admin @stragu doing good work there. They're desperate to try and harass trans people. Weirdos.

@stragu I'm also new here and glad to see inclusivity right at the forefront
If anyone is interested they can follow me and I will do the same.

I think I'm somewhat entertaining but more importantly this is a good way to stick it to the other social medias and their rampant trans/gay/racial phobias !!

Anyways, follow me !!!

To entice you I've posted a picture of a shady looking squirrel eye balling me today !!!

This is but a taste of what I have to offer !!
*Chef's kiss*

@Tazer_face420 😄 welcome here rayray! Good squirrel. Chuck him on iNaturalist while you’re at it!
@stragu any word on ableism?
@Br3nda i think we can write the same post about ableism, yes. Lots of disabled folks around, and anyone seen harassing them will be reported and isolated to the extent of my moderator rights, and I hope and demand that fellow admins and mods do the same.
@stragu hi, I'm hume from malaysia. New here 😁
@kehumanusiaan welcome here Hume! Hope you like it 🙂
@stragu so great to hear that. Hate has become so common in the bird place it feels like a daily battle to keep your sanity.
@stragu It's so weird to me that transphobes would call themselves "gender critical". You'd think that would make them gender non conforming. "Gender conservative" would be more accurate...
@zinston @stragu yes, this is what almost led me on the wrong path when I started to research about gender (although I was browsing reddit, so this one was on me).
@zinston @stragu They’re just recycling the exact content that was used to harass lesbians when I was a kid, which itself was just recycled racism. Fact-free fear, all of it.
@stragu congratulations. Carry on 
@stragu Is it good or bad that I don't know what a "terv" is ?
@Jim_Pembroke my fault for using an acronym that was then liberately pluralised! "Terves" is the (maybe niche? and used because it sounds funny?) plural of TERF: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/TERF
@stragu Ahhh. I learnt something. Thanks.
@stragu ...how do I 'like' this post more than once?
@stragu Loving what I’m seeing from Mastodon thus far! 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈
@skittlepup1 So glad you enjoy it so far, Skittle! 🙂
@stragu just joined, you can be my first follow for supporting our community #transrights 🏳️‍⚧️
@WillowChloe welcome here! Great to have you. I hope you have as wonderful a time here as I’ve had for the last few years, if not better.
@stragu Thank you. Good to hear 🥰
@stragu as a trans person who came here from the bird app, this is really lovely to see
@ValouriousKnight welcome here ! I hope you have a wonderful and improved experience here and can build great connections with fellow humans 🙂💜✊🏽
@stragu it's wonderful! All the stuff I loved about LiveJournal with the good bits of twitter and without the Hell-gorithims showing you all the people who hate you!
@ValouriousKnight ha well that sounds like a huge plus then!! 🤩
@ValouriousKnight @stragu just... chilling and thinking about stuff you WANT to think about. It's gorgeous. 😀