We're a few days into the current wave of #TwitterMigration, and we're all excited for all the #NewHere folks to have joined.

But please be mindful you are joining a social network that was not a barren, desolate desert before. It was a blooming, cozy garden.

It's not just about finding your old connections from  , it's also about making new valuable connections with folks on here, who might have moved years ago, or who might have never had an account on hellbird.

It's also important to recognize that like any large change to a social space, and like other such migrations before, this is making many of us old-timers here somewhat anxious.

Plenty of fedi people had quit  to find respite from the toxicity. So, a social contract of sorts emerged here.

It includes things that might be unfamiliar to the new arrivals — like broad use of Content Warnings ("CW" under the edit box) and expectation that images have alt text for the visually impaired.

But even though they might seem unfamiliar or perhaps a bit peculiar, these social norms are important. They helped make the Fediverse the cozy, blooming garden in the first place.

I think, and I hope you agree, that it's worth keeping it that way.

So please, don't take it the bad way when someone asks you to put a CW on something, or add an alt-text to an image. These are small asks. And with the post (hah!) edit function you can even fix it afterwards.

Let's be excellent to each other. 💜

To help #NewHere folk find their way around here, over the last few days I was boosting people liberally.

I will now be a bit more picky.

I will look for posts with a Content Warning when that's appropriate. I will avoid boosting posts with images but without an alt-text or image description in the post.

Again, it's nothing personal. I had to go through this myself: learn when to use CW, get used to writing alt-text. I am still not perfect in this, nobody is.

But we need to get a bit better.

Just to be clear, CWs and alt-text *are* extra work. And we all run out of spoons sometimes. That's okay. Don't feel bad if you genuinely cannot find the energy for them.

Also, different people will have different expectations what should and should not be CW'd. That's also okay, as long as it's a conscious choice.

What's not okay is deciding you just can't be bothered with any of this.

Fedi is a communal garden, we're all gardeners. Let's keep it cozy and blooming. 

@rysiek Solid thread. Now to sort out how boosting an entire thread works here :)
@rysiek In appreciation of your thread I am posting an image of my actual garden, where I‘m busy right now :)
@rysiek newbie’s question: what is a CW?
@EricFielding
A content warning: like a spoiler alert, there is a headline and a text or media below @rysiek
@EricFielding @rysiek "CW" stands for "Content Warning". You're offering a quick headline of the topic of the post, so people can decide whether they may want to avoid based on personal triggers.
@rysiek is there any good practice guide on CW? I know that this topic is not black and white, but maybe sharing some kind of list with basic rules would be a good idea

@to3k @rysiek My rule of thumbs is quite simple and works most of the time for me. If you are wondering if a post of yours might need a CW or not, it probably needs a CW.

A CW on a post that doesn't need a CW is better than a post without a CW that needs a CW

@rysiek Thank you for this thread (is that what they are called here?) And is there a hashtag for the #FediEtiquette ? So that tjos of us who are #NewHere can learn how to behave?

@rysiek really helpful thread, thank you! As part of the big recent influx I'm mindful that it must be really weird for the folks who were already here. I hope we don't trample your garden! 🌷

Also thank you for that last point, I always try to add alt text, warnings etc and if I don't then it's definitely due to fatigue / short term memory problems. It's encouraging to see that is understood here too!

@moragperkins it is very well understood here. Plenty of people on fedi are acutely, personally familiar with the "spoons" concept, and recognize the importance of it.

You won't trample the garden, you are a part of it now. 

@andreasdotorg FYI als Kontext zur Twitter Diskussion
@rysiek i have to add here: if you think of mastodon as work, might not be the right place for you;-)

@biglinter well, it makes sense in some cases. I *want* public institutions to be present here. I could even see some value of brands being here, if done right.

But especially brands need to understand this is not  . Any attempt at heavy marketing here will backfire.

@rysiek
I just tried to add alt-text to images in an already posted post but it won't let me. I'm using the web interface and while I can add the alt-text and hit "apply changes" the changes aren't actually applied.
@8thorpe give it a moment, it takes a few seconds for changes to propagate.
@rysiek Thanks for these posts. I’ve just arrived & stumbling around somewhat. Info like this is really appreciated in helping with the transition.

@rysiek how do I add alt text though, couldn't figure it out just now.

edit: I use the web site not an app if it matters.

@badc0fee when adding an image, you get an "edit" overlay on it. Click it and you get the image edit UI, with alt-text field.
@rysiek thank you. I must not have noticed. Is there a way after posting too?
@badc0fee same way, if your instance supports post editing
@rysiek thanks, I can edit it but I get "unspecified error" when I try to add tags - oh well, growing pains.

@rysiek I try to be conscientious, but you really can't guess what everyone everywhere might consider triggering. BTW I still stand by what I said in the first ever nonsexual topless Vlog I ever did (tagged for female nipples obviously) (don't mind the clickbait title, I'm not saying ALL trigger warnings just that some of the expectations by some of what should be spoilered gets pretty ridiculous)

https://videos.trom.tf/search/lazy-load-video;url=https:%2F%2Fvideos.trom.tf%2Fvideos%2Fwatch%2Feee43527-8b57-401e-942d-f6a1586e7fe3

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@rysiek
If I may add some additional notes.
The Fediverse is far more than just Mastodon, and indeed far predates Mastodon.
Mastodon is just the most popular bit of software powering the Fediverse.
Much of the community here was created by LGBTQIA and/or POC/indiginous folk and other marginalised communities - many of the "features" many newcomers feel are missing from Mastodon in particular are conscious design choices to increase the safety and comfort of marginalised people.
@rysiek
Mastodon itself is more than just the massive instances that, quite frankly, are TOO big - Mastodon.social, universeodon, and the various instances run by Stux, in particular, are infamous for their lax moderation, which means that many of the more interesting instances are constantly on the verge of de-federating from those instances because of the amount of abuse, harassment, and spam coming from those servers.
I'm not saying everyone there is bad, but enough are...
@rysiek
The large, general purpose servers are fine short-term, but finding a like-minded instance based around an interest (eg, art, photography, writing, crafts, science, music), occupation (eg, computing, science), or location can be beneficial.
Most of these may be based around one concept, but don't restrict users to just that topic, many encourage going off-topic, as a way of getting to know each other.
If you want to keep your interests separate, it's easy to set up separate accounts.
@rysiek
If you have the technical knowhow, setting up your own instance, either for purely personal use, or to host a small group of friends, can be beneficial.
This allows you complete control over everything, including ownership of your social graph, and often will cost less than Twitter Blue.
My server has 5 accounts, for my different personal projects, for instance.
There are also services that can host personal instances for you.
@rysiek
If you can afford it, please tip your admins - server costs may be relatively cheap, but they soon add up, and administration and moderation take time - many of the more reputable instances have multiple mods in multiple timezones around the globe, and pay those mods for their time, which can be expensive - even £/$/€1 (or other currency) per month can help.
No one is getting rich off this, but it means your admins/mods wont be getting poor.
@rysiek
But above all, to quote Abe Lincoln...
"Be excellent to each other.
And...
PARTY ON DUDES!"
😁
@rysiek
This is great advice. Thank you!
#NewHere
@rysiek I do think that Mastodon makes it easier to add alt text than other media. It’s more in-your-face with the suggestion so I don’t forget to do it. I appreciate that.
@rysiek I'm not super new here (been here a bit over a year) but I think I'm not great at using CWs, obviously use them when talking about sensitive topics and things which are commonly distressing, but I've seen others use them for a large variety of other things, and I'm not really sure what the social expectation is. Any tips?

@bitomag a decent guideline is "if you're not sure if a post needs a CW, it needs a CW."

And don't worry, nobody is perfect, we're all learning, and norms are fluid. I am far from perfect with CWs also.

The important thing is that we try to improve and listen to what others tell us.