We're a few days into the current wave of #TwitterMigration, and we're all excited for all the #NewHere folks to have joined.

But please be mindful you are joining a social network that was not a barren, desolate desert before. It was a blooming, cozy garden.

It's not just about finding your old connections from  , it's also about making new valuable connections with folks on here, who might have moved years ago, or who might have never had an account on hellbird.

It's also important to recognize that like any large change to a social space, and like other such migrations before, this is making many of us old-timers here somewhat anxious.

Plenty of fedi people had quit  to find respite from the toxicity. So, a social contract of sorts emerged here.

It includes things that might be unfamiliar to the new arrivals — like broad use of Content Warnings ("CW" under the edit box) and expectation that images have alt text for the visually impaired.

But even though they might seem unfamiliar or perhaps a bit peculiar, these social norms are important. They helped make the Fediverse the cozy, blooming garden in the first place.

I think, and I hope you agree, that it's worth keeping it that way.

So please, don't take it the bad way when someone asks you to put a CW on something, or add an alt-text to an image. These are small asks. And with the post (hah!) edit function you can even fix it afterwards.

Let's be excellent to each other. 💜

To help #NewHere folk find their way around here, over the last few days I was boosting people liberally.

I will now be a bit more picky.

I will look for posts with a Content Warning when that's appropriate. I will avoid boosting posts with images but without an alt-text or image description in the post.

Again, it's nothing personal. I had to go through this myself: learn when to use CW, get used to writing alt-text. I am still not perfect in this, nobody is.

But we need to get a bit better.

Just to be clear, CWs and alt-text *are* extra work. And we all run out of spoons sometimes. That's okay. Don't feel bad if you genuinely cannot find the energy for them.

Also, different people will have different expectations what should and should not be CW'd. That's also okay, as long as it's a conscious choice.

What's not okay is deciding you just can't be bothered with any of this.

Fedi is a communal garden, we're all gardeners. Let's keep it cozy and blooming. 

@rysiek
If I may add some additional notes.
The Fediverse is far more than just Mastodon, and indeed far predates Mastodon.
Mastodon is just the most popular bit of software powering the Fediverse.
Much of the community here was created by LGBTQIA and/or POC/indiginous folk and other marginalised communities - many of the "features" many newcomers feel are missing from Mastodon in particular are conscious design choices to increase the safety and comfort of marginalised people.
@rysiek
Mastodon itself is more than just the massive instances that, quite frankly, are TOO big - Mastodon.social, universeodon, and the various instances run by Stux, in particular, are infamous for their lax moderation, which means that many of the more interesting instances are constantly on the verge of de-federating from those instances because of the amount of abuse, harassment, and spam coming from those servers.
I'm not saying everyone there is bad, but enough are...
@rysiek
The large, general purpose servers are fine short-term, but finding a like-minded instance based around an interest (eg, art, photography, writing, crafts, science, music), occupation (eg, computing, science), or location can be beneficial.
Most of these may be based around one concept, but don't restrict users to just that topic, many encourage going off-topic, as a way of getting to know each other.
If you want to keep your interests separate, it's easy to set up separate accounts.
@rysiek
If you have the technical knowhow, setting up your own instance, either for purely personal use, or to host a small group of friends, can be beneficial.
This allows you complete control over everything, including ownership of your social graph, and often will cost less than Twitter Blue.
My server has 5 accounts, for my different personal projects, for instance.
There are also services that can host personal instances for you.
@rysiek
If you can afford it, please tip your admins - server costs may be relatively cheap, but they soon add up, and administration and moderation take time - many of the more reputable instances have multiple mods in multiple timezones around the globe, and pay those mods for their time, which can be expensive - even £/$/€1 (or other currency) per month can help.
No one is getting rich off this, but it means your admins/mods wont be getting poor.
@rysiek
But above all, to quote Abe Lincoln...
"Be excellent to each other.
And...
PARTY ON DUDES!"
😁