"I was so traumatised by the #musicindustry, severely depressed. To have the thing you love destroyed by other people is soul-destroying." How #DuBlonde quit trying to please #toxicmen and #musicbusiness #scumbags, and started living her best life

https://www.loudersound.com/features/the-music-industry-tried-to-crush-du-blonde-but-failed

"Being signed to #recordlabels made me fall so out of love with #makingmusic that I almost stopped." The #music industry needs more artists like Du Blonde, but she doesn't need the music #industry at all

So the day after #Trump's election win, misogynistic posts from #toxicmen (like #Tate & #Fuente) went viral.
Basically saying women can "suck up their loss of autonomy and that now they-the-men call the shots and fully control #womensbodies boo hoo girls".

I said to my husb (who is NOT a toxic male) that we should expect the numbers of assaults & rapes to go through the roof. After all if a President can get away with it so too can they.

By the way my fury as a mother of 3 young women, and his fury as their father have gone way off the scale.

So today we saw this
https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2024/nov/12/donald-trump-election-sex-men-misogyny-feminism

Im not surprised. Why should any women give any time or energy to these "entities" (bc Tate/Fuentes types are not human).
The young men they influence have a choice bc this behaviour is not natural.

99% of Men are NOT toxic but their learnt BEHAVIOUR is. They have to own that fact, undo it, learn how to behave as decent males and then DO THE WORK to become a person that someone somewhere can love.

That also means ditching the x-boxes and headphones and learning how to converse.

#misogyny #toxicmasculinity #andrewtate #NickFuentes #trumpisarapist #usapolitics

The thing about memories of bullying, body shaming, abuse, violence, assault is that they’re intangible. It’s even hard to capture them in words. Yet, they lodge in pieces inside the body & erode the insides with every breath. When those insides are housed in a female body, it’s not a house as much as a warzone. Courtroom for custody battles.

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