Someone nice helped me out tonight.
I went to the store. The guy misgendered me a shit ton and then overcharged me so that ALL of the money was now locked behind a "pending" transaction.
Too bad, so sad. The money will be back in 2-3 business days, so just postpone the pangs of hunger until then.
Gee, golly, I'd postpone them by 7-10 business days if I could, but you know. Maslow's hierarchy is a bitch.
I'm so tired of being fucked with. But I hope at some point they start to realize that fucking people from whom you've taken everything is really just a very bad plan.