🔥 Hey. Do any other systems on here have experience/advice how to facilitate the transfer of the host role from one headmate to another?
I don't have verbal confirmation from her yet, but I also don't feel any pushback against the feeling/idea that Aimée (🪡) needs a brake from hosting and that I would take over that role.
I just have a way easier time handling some of the everyday stuff, which she really struggles with.
Like I just got up and stretched and afterwards went to the bathroom to brush our teeth. Aimée usually needs body doubling from our girlfriend for that. This isn't meant to shame her, but it's just a fact that this is much easier for me. And having these self care routines be actual routines is something I know, she also wants.
So I think a host change would actually be beneficial for the entire system and it feels like Aimée agrees.
So yeah, how could we make that happen, that I take over as host?
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