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My latest.
When your journey isn't enough to motivate you, it's because you haven't accepted it yet.
You're still arguing with it.
You think it should be easier or that you shouldn't have had to go through all those things.
Shift your perception.
Those things got you here.
Those things are the reason why you are who you are.
It's easy to decide that you could have gotten there without all the pain, but would you have done it?
Would you really trade where you are now to avoid the pain?
Deciding that things shouldn't be the way they are is what causes the pain.
Learning to see the journey for just what it is - a path that got you here - frees you from needing to argue with the way you think it should have looked.
The problem is you that you can't change it. It's a losing battle. So if you don't accept it, it's just a stalemate. You can't get there from there.
Think about all the places where you realized that without that thing the next thing wouldn't have happened. Can you find those?
That shows you how interconnected your experience truly is. One thing led to the next thing led to the next thing, and it kept going. If you look at it closely, you'll see that it all makes sense. You just have to get out of the story of victimizing yourself with your own life experience to see it.
Your life may not have turned out the way you thought it should, but it did turn out exactly the way it was supposed to. How do I know that? Because you're here, that's how.
Love to all.
Della
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Well I'm going to do something I haven't done in a while, share a blog link!
I've been writing, I just haven't been sharing the links as much, but both my blogs are still going strong.
There is a brand new blog I just published on Uncovering Your Reality talking about the difference between need and want in relation to change in your external reality.
You can hit up my website at https://dellawren.com or the blog directly at https://uncoveringyourreality.dellawren.com/painful-needs-healing-desires/
Shameless plug: Come hang out with me on Patreon. I share a lot more consistent writing over there! I'd love to see you there. The link is on my website!
Love to all.
Della
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You're scared of healing because you don't know what you're going to find. It's a new adventure and the mind makes up reasons why not.
Just accept that for a while there will be a level of fear present in your healing journey. It's just how it is. I'm happy to tell you that the fear doesn't last forever. It will stop.
When does it end?
When your mind realizes that you're not doing anything scary.
This process isn't scary but your mind doesn't know that yet because you haven't done it.
So how do you deal with that?
Take some small thing in your present experience and heal/release it. Try it and see what happens.
The illusion is that there is something there that you don't know about. But that's not true. You know about everything because you lived it. There is nothing hidden there at all.
When you try it with small things and it works, it'll be easier to do with those more painful experiences in your past.
When you can master it in your daily life it makes it easier to go backwards and start to clear off your laundry pile of pain.
I suppose in some ways I started there too. I had a lot of perspective shifting I had to do first. Like you, I was tied up in all the stories I was telling myself about what was happening. I had made myself a victim of my own experience. I had to shift that before I could fully heal much of anything.
By unwinding that through understanding my reality at the time, I was able to gain control over my perspective. I stopped making myself a victim.
I was afraid of the process when I first started because I didn't know where I was going to end up. What I realized was that nothing really happened, I just felt better. My life was easier to manage. I was more comfortable. I had a little bit of confidence. My spine was starting to grow back. Things got better.
There wasn't a major transition moment though. It was lots of small things adding up over time that created noticeable change and none of it was scary.
I sat in a lot of fear, but it was all my own and in my head. Most of my fear came from my perception of myself as a victim of my life. Healing the fear meant seeing that I wasn't a victim and that things would be okay.
It takes time. This isn't easy. I'm not here to sugarcoat it for you. It will require effort and you will probably have to deal with some fear, but you can do it. You can shift your perspective. You can heal.
I've posted tons today about how to do that. Go have a read of my previous posts and ask questions if you have them.
Love to all.
Della
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