I've been studying power play in BDSM recently, trying to find my bearings.
Top/bottom dynamics and domination are actually nuanced - who knew! ๐
I learned about the paradoxical Service Top and Alpha Submissive roles. I'm probably a Service Top myself, it would explain my altruistic urge to give and be told to do so, yet to be on top, in control.
Now for some practice - who's ready to order me to fuck them hard? ๐










