I've been studying power play in BDSM recently, trying to find my bearings.

Top/bottom dynamics and domination are actually nuanced - who knew! 😅

I learned about the paradoxical Service Top and Alpha Submissive roles. I'm probably a Service Top myself, it would explain my altruistic urge to give and be told to do so, yet to be on top, in control.

Now for some practice - who's ready to order me to fuck them hard? 😇

#kink #servicetop #alphasub