When Life Overwhelms

 Discovering Strength Beyond Yourself
DID YOU KNOW

Did you know that God sometimes allows you to face more than you can handle so that you will learn to depend fully on Him?

This challenges a familiar saying many of us have repeated: “God won’t give you more than you can handle.” While comforting on the surface, Scripture paints a more nuanced and truthful picture. In Judges 6, Gideon stands as a powerful example. When the angel of the Lord calls him a “mighty man of valor,” Gideon is hiding, overwhelmed by fear and the oppression of Midian. The task God places before him—to deliver Israel—is far beyond his natural ability. Yet that is precisely the point. God intentionally reduces Gideon’s army in Judges 7 so that victory cannot be attributed to human strength. The lesson becomes unmistakable: God’s power is revealed most clearly when human strength is insufficient.

This principle resonates deeply in the Christian life. The Greek concept of humility seen in Epistle to the Philippians 2:3–4 calls believers to a posture of dependence, not self-sufficiency. When we reach the limits of our ability, we are not failing—we are being invited into deeper reliance on God. A.W. Tozer once observed, “It is doubtful whether God can bless a man greatly until He has hurt him deeply.” That insight reminds us that moments of overwhelm are often the very places where God begins His most meaningful work in us.

Did you know that trials are not signs of God’s absence, but instruments of His refinement?

Psalm 66 provides a vivid picture of how God uses difficulty to shape His people. “For you have tested us, O God; you have tried us as silver is tried” (Psalm 66:10). The Hebrew word צָרַף (tsaraph), meaning “to refine or smelt,” describes a process where impurities are burned away through intense heat. This is not a passive experience; it is intentional and purposeful. When the psalmist speaks of going “through fire and through water,” he is describing extremes—moments where survival itself feels uncertain. Yet the outcome is not destruction, but purification.

In our own lives, we often interpret hardship as something to escape rather than something to understand. Yet Scripture consistently teaches that God uses these moments to form character and deepen faith. As one commentator from BibleHub notes, “The furnace of affliction is the workshop of God’s grace.” This reframes our perspective. Instead of asking, “Why is this happening to me?” we begin to ask, “What is God forming within me?” The refining process may be uncomfortable, but it is always purposeful, leading us toward a more wholehearted devotion to Him.

Did you know that God’s greatest work often begins when self-reliance finally ends?

The history of Israel demonstrates a recurring pattern: when the people relied on their own strength or turned to false gods, they faltered. Only when they reached a place of desperation did they cry out to the Lord. This cycle is not merely historical; it is deeply personal. There is something within us that resists surrender, that clings to control even when it fails us. Yet God, in His mercy, allows circumstances that bring us to the end of ourselves—not to break us, but to redirect us.

This truth is beautifully reflected in Epistle to the Philippians 2:5–8, where we see Christ Himself embracing humility and surrender. “He humbled Himself and became obedient to the point of death, even the death of the cross.” The Greek word κενόω (kenoō), often translated “to empty,” describes Christ’s willingness to lay aside His rights and rely fully on the Father’s will. In doing so, He models the very posture we are called to adopt. When we release our grip on self-reliance, we make room for God’s strength to be revealed. It is not weakness to depend on Him; it is the beginning of true strength.

Did you know that God’s faithfulness remains constant, even when your strength and faith feel inconsistent?

One of the most encouraging aspects of Psalm 66 is its conclusion: “Blessed be God, because He has not rejected my prayer or removed His steadfast love from me!” (Psalm 66:20). The Hebrew phrase חֶסֶד (chesed), often translated “steadfast love,” speaks of God’s covenantal loyalty—His unwavering commitment to His people. This love is not dependent on our performance. It persists even when we struggle, falter, or feel overwhelmed.

This truth finds its fullest expression in Jesus Christ. Where we fail, He remains faithful. Where we are weak, He is strong. His obedience, as described in Philippians 2, secures a relationship with God that is not based on our ability to handle life perfectly. Instead, it is grounded in His finished work. As Charles Spurgeon once said, “God is too good to be unkind, and He is too wise to be mistaken.” That reminder anchors us in hope. Even when we cannot see the purpose of our trials, we can trust the character of the One who walks with us through them.

As you reflect on these truths, consider where you may be feeling overwhelmed today. Instead of viewing that weight as a failure, see it as an invitation. God may be drawing you into a deeper dependence, refining your faith, and revealing His strength in ways you could not experience otherwise. The question is not whether you can handle it—but whether you will trust Him within it.

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Start Small to Achieve Big Goals: The Power of Taking Baby Steps

The new year is often brimming with fresh dreams and ambitious goals. Maybe you want to write that novel, start a podcast, or finally chase a passion project that’s been sitting on the back burner. Big dreams are powerful—they spark excitement, ignite our imagination, and give us something to strive toward. But let’s be real: big dreams can also feel intimidating. That’s why the key to achieving them lies in starting small.

When I look back on my own journey, every milestone I’ve reached started with small, actionable steps. Writing Under the Flamboyant Tree didn’t begin with an entire manuscript magically appearing. It started with a dream that I almost forget if it wasn’t because I remembered to write it down and from that I started Under the Flamboyant Tree. Expanding The Ordinary Bruja into a novella (or maybe even a novel—we’ll see!) began with sketching out Marisol’s world piece by piece. Each big achievement I’ve accomplished was built from countless small wins.

So, how do you tackle a big dream without feeling overwhelmed? Here are a few strategies to help you get started:

1. Break It Down

Big dreams are just a series of smaller goals stitched together. Want to write a book? Start with writing one scene, or even one paragraph. Want to launch a blog? Begin by brainstorming five potential topics. Breaking your dream into smaller, bite-sized tasks makes the journey feel manageable and keeps you motivated as you check each one off your list.

2. Celebrate the Small Wins

Every small step forward is worth celebrating. Did you outline a chapter? Take a moment to acknowledge your progress. Published a blog post? Treat yourself to something that brings you joy. Recognizing these achievements builds momentum and keeps you motivated for the next step.

3. Create Consistent Habits

Dreams don’t come true overnight; they’re built through consistency. Create daily or weekly habits that align with your goals. For me, carving out time each day for writing or editing has been essential, even if it’s just 15 minutes. Remember, consistency doesn’t mean perfection—it means showing up, even on the hard days.

4. Embrace Imperfection

Perfectionism is the enemy of progress. I’ve learned this the hard way, especially with podcasting. Once I let go of the idea of recording the “perfect” episode, I found freedom to grow and improve. The same goes for any big dream—embrace the messiness of the process and trust that you’ll refine things along the way.

5. Reflect and Adjust

Take time to reflect on what’s working and what isn’t. If a certain approach isn’t moving you closer to your goal, don’t be afraid to pivot. Dreams evolve, and so should your strategies for achieving them.

The beauty of starting small is that it allows you to build momentum and confidence as you go. One step leads to another, and before you know it, you’ll be closer to your dream than you ever imagined. Remember, every great journey begins with a single step—so take that step today.

Let’s make 2025 the year we dream big and start small, one actionable step at a time. What’s the first small step you’ll take toward your big dream this week? Share it in the comments below; I’d love to cheer you on!

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