From the Art of Manliness:
… you eventually leave the vicissitudes of puberty behind. You find your footing. You become more secure in who you are, and your identity has less and less to do with your status amongst others. Your sense of self-consciousness plummets, while your sense of not giving a shit soars.
Or, at least, that used to be the common life trajectory. Before the dawn of social media.
On these platforms, being liked literally remains the coin of the realm. You still want your choices to meet with approval. You’re still tempted to engage in cringey behavior for attention. You still find yourself framing your identity for the consumption of peers.
One of the traditional advantages of getting older, is that the energy once fruitlessly lent to caring what people think, can be channeled into being productively generative.
What will happen, then, if twenty, thirty years out from eighth grade, people never make that shift?
What will be the cost, to the individual, and to society, if social media forever keeps people in the other-directed haze of adolescence, never to fully grow up?
https://www.artofmanliness.com/articles/sunday-firesides-social-media-is-extending-everyones-adolescence/
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