@derwinmcgeary We have so many! My favorite #familect is our use of “be” as shorthand for “be [obstinate, grumpy, testy, inflexible, etc].” I have no idea where it comes from.
“I don’t want to!”
(exasperated) “Why are you being?”
“What’s wrong?”
“Nothing!”
“Don’t be.”
I love this footnote on gibberish codes in Marina Warner's book "No Go the Bogeyman".
Reminds me of Jessica Weiss's great essay "The Secret Linguistic Life of Girls", in the sadly defunct mag Schwa Fire:
https://web.archive.org/web/20150912190724/https://schwafire.atavist.com/secret_linguistic_life_girls
#language #linguistics #codes #SecretLanguage #familect #MarinaWarner
I often wonder who in the family tree picked up the expression. Did they read about the shipwreck in a newspaper, was there someone who read Longfellow?
How did no one recognize Hespers as a shortening of Hesperus?
Family dialects, familects, are fascinating.
Even though I know the correct term is Hesperus, I still refer to a messy room as The Wreck of the Hespers.
That is blood talking right there.
When I was a kid, if something was messy, you would hear my grandparents or my mother refer to it as looking like "The Wreck of the Hespers."
I would always ask, " What are Hespers?"
I always visualized malevolent sprites or brownies or ghosties.
I still say it to this day.
But one day, I was reading something and I see "The Wreck of the Hesperus"--a ship that went down in a storm in Michigan, a place my people have never been. Also a poem by Longfellow.
@derwinmcgeary Tricky! They're such natural parts of vocabulary as to not notice them!
Some #familect ones from @curatedjenny and me:
"Binwards" (in the direction of the bin, although not necessarily all the way into said bin)
"Böking" (The act of wrestling with an unwieldy object like a large box - Swenglish. I can't think of how to write it phonetically in English!)
"I'm small" (Feeling emotionally vulnerable)
"Ketlon" (Putting the kettle on)
I have loads of #idiolect ones too, I expect!