I spend a substantial portion of my life calling across 2 rooms to K. to get him to a meal. This is not abuse of a disabled person; he prefers to be in control of his own moving around the house and it is important that he stays as active and mobile as he can be. He is not task-focused, however...
It is hard to express how much I resent being in a position where I must "nag." It's a big piece of why I've run away from managing people.




