One of my 2026 goals is to be my own ideal partner/date myself more deliberately (im already autosexual, so it makes relentless sense)
To that end, im planning my first date of the year with myself, and ngl ive straight up got all the feelings i nornally get before a date with someone i dont know well (what are "we" gonna do? Are "they" gonna like me? Omg what will i wear??? ๐ญ)
To manage the discombobulation, ive made a list of decisions i need to make:
- choose budget
- choose location/time
- choose activity
- choose outfit
- choose food/libations
Whew im both relieved and already exhausted, but i also know im a fantastic partner and worth the effort of planning ๐ฉท wow, reminding myself what i like about myself and the concrete things that make me a good partner are helping me be excited more than nervous! More and more confident all the time that the thing missing from my previous relationships was, in fact, me ๐ฅฐ
#dating #selfcare #selflove #autosexual