Blind humility can make you a poor leader.
Humility is often touted as the paramount soft skill for someone who leads, but used incorrectly it can tank morale with your people.
Let me explain.
Humility works *in concert* with self awareness and EQ.
If you're amazing at something, but "humble" about it, you might expect other people to execute that thing at the same level you can.
"If I can do it, why can't they? I'm not any better than them."
Only EQ shapes humility properly.
Knowing yourself well, that you're good at something, and understanding that's what makes you unique.
Not better; unique.
Then using EQ and holding that up against the uniqueness of others - showing them patience and stewardship - helping them to own their own greatness.
- Be humble.
- Recognize where you're great.
- Recognize unique greatness in others.
- Weave that into the tapestry of your team.
That's leadership.