Coincidence?

Coincidence appears often in our lives: For example, my turning on a light in my apartment building, at the moment someone else is looking up. This simple event—that perfectly timed light just as they look up—might strike them as being significant. But for me it may go unnoticed as an unremarkable moment. The perception of meaning in that coincidence depends on our contexts. It’s the context that is the special part, not the event itself. Understanding that, makes it possible to shift our perspectives.

Sonder: n. the realization that each random passerby is the main character of their own story, living a life just as vivid and complex as your own, while you are just an extra in the background

~ “Sonder” is credited to John Koenig

I’m just the random person flipping on a light. That other person, who I don’t even know is out there, is the main character of their story. But it’s just a coincidence.

Thirty years ago I bought a calculator. An HP-42S which, to this day, works perfectly in every respect. The keys don’t just still work but they are in perfect condition. They softly bump (the way a modern phone’s haptic motor dreams it might some day bump) and their labels remain pristine. It’s clearly a marvel of over-engineering. It takes 3 little button batteries, and they last about 3 or 4 years. When I bought it, it was moderately expensive. Not expensive per se, but also not something I’d want to lose. So I put a little white label inside the battery door and I wrote the date and my first name. (And I did once leave it in a laboratory, and retrieved it from lost+found by saying, “my name is inside.”) Being insane, I even wrote the month/year on that label as I changed the batteries. After about 15 years, the label was full and I stopped writing dates. A few days ago—on December 16th to be exact—the battery indicator said it was again, time. Normally (read “ALWAYS”), I’m a “jump up and do it now” sort of person. Instead, for no particular reason, I turned off my faithful 42S and simply set it aside. The very next day, I got three new batteries, opened the little battery door…

And it was December 17th. I bought my calculator on December 17, 1993. There I was, changing the batteries on December 17th, 2023. Exactly 30 years. It’s just an interesting coincidence, right?

ɕ

#7ForSunday #Calculators #Coincidence #JohnKoenig #Nostalgia #Sonder
HP-42S - Wikipedia

#Sonder
A very old friend jumped into a Signal chat with me to remind me that 12 years ago I shared this video with him and he wanted to say thanks. It's funny how a word and the exploration of a word can grow to frame an experience. I think about this a lot. https://vimeo.com/83358821
Sonder

Vimeo
SPD-Ministerpräsidenten warnen Merz: Sonder-MPK jetzt erforderlich

Wegen stark steigender Kraftstoffpreise und drohender Engpässe drängen SPD-geführte Länder auf eine schnelle Sonder-MPK zur Sicherung der Energieversorgung.

DieNiedersachsen.de

A new connections app, Sonder, has a deliberately tedious sign-up process (and it’s working)

image via techcrunch.com

“With the format of existing dating apps, the intention is lowering the barrier to entry and improving access, allowing for introverts to meet a bunch of people easily,” co-founder Helen Sun told TechCrunch. “Those intentions were really good at the beginning, but based on the way those apps have evolved, I think it’s become a very monotonous thing, and people are suffering from burnout because there’s a loss of authenticity.”

https://techcrunch.com/2026/04/01/a-new-dating-app-sonder-has-a-deliberately-annoying-sign-up-process-and-its-working #app #connections #dating #signUp #sonder
A new connections app, Sonder, has a deliberately tedious sign-up process (and it’s working) | TechCrunch

Sonder profiles are completely unstructured, encouraging users to build something that looks like a mood board or a digital collage. Think MySpace rather than LinkedIn.

TechCrunch

When I see something remarkable, I practice thinking about the "hidden" version that we don't see.

Like, I know I meet _plenty_ of cool people but don't get to know them deeply enough to appreciate them. #Sonder

The codebase of the most popular LLM product was released by accident, so we get to audit it ourselves. And it's pretty bad.

So I think about how Microslop's GCC High system _isn't_ publicly known (nor is it to FedRAMP). I have to assume it's much worse...

re:
https://infosec.exchange/@brian_greenberg/116315152417885333

Brian Greenberg :verified: (@[email protected])

I teach cybersecurity. And I genuinely don't know what to tell my students after this one. Federal reviewers spent years trying to get basic encryption documentation from Microsoft for its GCC High government cloud. They couldn't get it. One reviewer called the system a "pile of spaghetti pies," with data traveling from point A to point B the way you'd get from Chicago to New York: a bus to St. Louis, a ferry to Pittsburgh, and a flight to Newark. Each leg is a potential hijacking. They knew this. They said this out loud in writing. Then they approved it anyway in December 2024, because too many agencies were already using it. 🔐 That's not a security review. That's a hostage negotiation. Two things in this story should make every CISO and CIO uncomfortable: 🧩 Microsoft built its federal cloud on top of decades of legacy code that it apparently can't fully document itself 👮 "Digital escorts" often ex-military with minimal software engineering backgrounds are the firewall between Chinese engineers working on the system and classified U.S. networks 🤦🏻‍♂️ The scariest line in the whole ProPublica investigation isn't the "pile of shit" quote. It's this: FedRAMP determined that refusing authorization wasn't feasible because agencies were already using the product. Read that again. The security review process reached a conclusion based on sunk cost, not risk. Ex Post Facto Fallacy If that logic holds, the compliance framework is just documentation theater. And right now, CISA is being hollowed out, so there are fewer people left to even run the theater. https://arstechnica.com/information-technology/2026/03/federal-cyber-experts-called-microsofts-cloud-a-pile-of-shit-approved-it-anyway/ #Cybersecurity #Microsoft #FedRAMP #Leadership #RiskManagement #security #privacy #cloud #infosec

Infosec Exchange
AFA statt ICE: Bayern-AfD fordert Sonder-Polizei – ein Kommentar · Leipziger Zeitung

Muss man sich wirklich darüber erregen, wenn die bayerische AfD eine AFA, „Asyl-, Fahndungs- und Abschiebegruppe“ der bayerischen Polizei, in Bayern

Leipziger Zeitung

If I get an obituary and it referred to me as a "recent alum"... that's so reductive. Please remember that everyone is so much more than what text could ever say about them. #Sonder

And if it needs to be said on this topic, tbc, if I were to die anytime soon, it'd not be by my own doing, it'd be like in a "fallen off a balcony" way like https://mastodon.online/@xankarn/115938485686670041
because I've found for myself what makes this life worth living.

Alexander Karn (@[email protected])

Attached: 1 image America has reached the “victim threw himself out the window” stage of authoritarianism. Noem has become quite the mobster.

Mastodon

Reading CSCW papers

Four overlapping kinds of *invisible work*:

1. work done out of view of others,
2. routine or manual work requiring judgment and skill not acknowledged,
3. work done by people who are not valued, and
4. work that is not part of anyone's job description, but critical to getting things done.

This makes me feel seen, and I try to be mindful of others' invisible work, too.

#Sonder