Y'know, ever since #RedditTulpas died, we don't really have a more IRC-like space to talk about #Tulpamancy crap anymore. We don't know any good servers that aren't run by people with... lively histories or drowning in drama.
Last we checked, the #Amino scene was a trashfire. r/Tulpas is mostly beginner questions, and Tulpa.info... I don't think is super active anymore? Last time we went on there, only a grand total of 25 people were online, and only two of them had registered accounts (one of them being us).
On #Tumblr a while back, I made a post about the fracture and decline of the Tulpamancy community, but damn, it really did decline, huh?