Well-connected and still lonely. The irony…


We are the most well‑connected population in history. Connection today is seen through various means — phone calls, text messages, social media, followers, engaging with content, sharing our thoughts, and discussions. Technological advancement has truly made the world a “village” and has undoubtedly made our lives easier in terms of reach and connection.

Social media has become a powerful tool for such connections. Many people have thousands of subscribers and followers, while some have gained millions. Most things have become digital, if not all.

Yet, despite being well‑connected, there is an irony. Does being well‑connected mean being satisfied and happy? Does it mean that the population who are most connected today are also the most fulfilled? The reality is different: despite this connectivity, a huge number of people feel lonely. Solitude seems to be at its peak today.

Is this a situational shift, or a deeper cultural change? Many people prefer to stay alone and avoid groups — even Gen Z is part of this trend. Are we moving toward a scenario where, despite the highest population numbers, loneliness will also be at its maximum? Isn’t that ironic?

What can be the possible reasons for this shift. People are part of the crowd and the rat race, yet solitude is increasing. Are we moving towards a solitude society? Or the society is no more reliable for in-person friendship, relationship or discussion?

Or the society is reliable for loneliness and solitude?

It may be just a question… But requires discussion to find the genuine answer.

Share your thoughts. Happy reading!

Ashish Kumar

Check my book – “The Balance Sheet of Life: A Mirror not a Manual”

https://ashishvision.wordpress.com/2026/01/20/book-release-announcement/

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Our Saturday #Bookbug session at #KilsythLib is looking for more little book fans to come along and enjoy songs, rhymes and stories with us. The next session is on Saturday 31 May, 10.30am for ages 0 - 5. We'd love to see you there.

Over the holiday weekend, some of our #Bookbug sessions will not be on as normal.

Sessions off are:

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#SteppsLib would like to remind its little #Bookbug fans that this week's session on Friday 23 May has been cancelled. The session will return on Friday 30 May.
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Santa has managed to squeeze in a few visits to our #Bookbug sessions lately, like here at #WishawLib. Looks like everyone enjoyed the festive fun.
We all know how busy Santa is at this time of year, but he took some time out from his busy schedule to visit the #Bookbug at #NewmainsLib recently.
#Bookbug at #MotherwellLib had a very special visitor today for the little ones to see.

For #Bookbug Online this week, Gillian from #WishawLib has a great set of songs and rhymes for you to enjoy. Join in when you can.

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