Stone Cairns

@stonetree@spore.social
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I believe the Universe bends towards Justice and we all have a part. I've been a nonviolent organizer in the streets and in the office. I've taught at colleges and in many more church basements. These days, I coach others to take creative, life-affirming actions to win the world we want - one of ease, grace and justice. I live halfway up a hill on Chinook land in the Willamette Valley of Cascadia.
PronounsThey/Them
AdjectivesQueer, Disabled, White
All the Thingshttps://linktr.ee/stonecairns
Signal@Stone.23
Nonbinary awareness day, y’all. And it’s been nonbinary awareness week. Just remember, nonbinary folks don’t owe you androgyny, we’re not “women lite” or “soft guys.” We’re not a phase on a transition diagram. Gender is much more than a spectrum, it’s a multidimensional convoluted hyperspace.
Happy non binary day my fellow gender explorers! We rock!

Looks like the "Verify your fedi account" scam is gaining pace, & evolving to look more real.

Your server admin will not ask you to click a link to verify your account. And no other admin from any other server will either, even if they do look like they could be part of the main Mastodon team. It's a scam.

Please report any post or DM that urges you to click any link to verify your account.

If you've any doubts about your account, now or on any other day, contact your server admin or mod team.

@thomas @SunDancer

Oh good night. My #passwordManager is the last place I want anyone's AI.

https://nerds.xyz/2025/07/bitwarden-mcp-server-secure-ai/

Bitwarden MCP server secures AI access to your passwords

Bitwarden releases local first MCP server so AI agents can securely manage passwords without compromising encryption

NERDS.xyz

I left Eugene OR at 8am and made it to Ellensberg WA at 4:30pm. About four hours into the drive was the #ColumbiaRiver Gorge. It is one of the most spectactular places in the world - 80 miles of canyon that goes from forested mountains to high desert.

These photos are from the #ColumbiaGorge Discovery Center not far from #TheDalles, OR. The Center was closed due to wildfire damage. The fire had come up the side of the canyon and just a few feet over the edge.

#GoodNightFriends #roadTrip

Hey folks, I want to give you all an update on what's been going on with me lately. I haven't been around as much as I should be, which is a generous way of saying that I've been dropping the ball quite a bit over the last few months. It would be easy to just say that I've been busy and move on, but that's not the whole story.

Since I started this instance I have tried to be very transparent about my limited technical ability so that everyone understands that this is very much a process of me figuring things out as I go along. What's been harder for me to be transparent about are my mental health limitations. I've told myself that I'm just having some anxiety or a mental block when it comes to administering this instance, but at some point, sitting on the couch, looking at my phone, knowing I should pick it up and check on the instance, but feeling completely paralyzed about it, I had to admit to myself that perhaps this is what depression feels like.

The fact of the matter is that I've been feeling pretty overwhelmed lately. It's not anybody's fault and it doesn't only have to do with Beige Party. It's a confluence of factors in my life and in the world in general that have settled on my chest like a heavy weight and made me feel powerless to do anything. I've compensated by trying to avoid any kind of conflict and that has included administering this instance.

I get it. People are angry, and they have a right to be. I'm angry too, and I don't always know how to process it. I'm frightened about what's going to happen in the next four, ten, and twenty years. There was a time when I held onto the fiction that we'd all wake up from this nightmare and things would go back to normal. Now I have to admit that the normal I'm pining for has been dead for at least twenty years, and it wasn't all that great to begin with. However we get through this, it's not going to be by looking backwards, but by looking forwards, and finding people we can trust and work with to make the world that we want to live in. It's going to be a long and painful process, and I'm afraid we're just at the beginning of it. But the only way going to make it through is together.

None of this is intended as an excuse, just an explanation of where I am mentally these days. I am going try to make a concerted effort to do better and not let things get away from me as much as I have in the last few months. I can't promise I will always succeed but I can promise that I will continue to try.

One thing I want to be clear about is that I am not abandoning this instance. When I registered this domain I did it for ten years and I intend to be here for at least that long. This is a great community that we've built over the last three years. That has everything to do with all of you and very little to do with me, but I will continue to do my part to keep it going because it's worth preserving the good things in a world that is becomingevet more dismal.

I want to thank you all for continuing to bear with me and placing your trust in me. I will do my best to continue to earn that trust. For the most part my my interactions here have been positive and it's something that I really value. I feel honered to be a member of this community.

As always, if anyone has any questions or concerns, please feel free to reach out to me directly. If I haven't responded in a timely fashion, please don't hesitate to poke me about it. Yes, I might get overwhelmed at times, but I still take my administrative duties seriously and I always want to do what's best for this community. I hope that I can continue to live up to that standard.

Thanks everyone, and beige-bless 

Reality has had too much plot happening

Maybe we can have some character development for a while

shout out to the little kid at the home run derby covering his ears during the national anthem lmao
Nonbinary day musings. I am a trans woman but consider myself nonbinary in terms of gender expression. My partner describes themselves as nonbinary, with none of the nuance/qualifications I have just used. I said tonight that "nonbinary" did not seem to be an ideal term, defining an identity only as not-something-else. My partner says the term is perfect. For them, nonbinary is not an identity, it is the absence of a particular way of identifying. #nonbinary

@kimlockhartga
Okay, the California farm worker strike is happening this week from Wednesday to Friday-- a trial run, I would think, considering the court verdict today ending "roving patrol" ICE raids. (We will see whether it does or not, I guess.)

In the meantime, we can support the workers by spreading information about the strike. They explicitly said before this that they want people to help raise awareness.

https://ktla.com/news/local-news/farmworker-groups-call-for-strike-to-protest-immigration-crackdown/

#Trump #ICE #California #unions

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Hard to find the original, but I love this
#BladeRunner #Gopher #AltaVista
@dennisfaucher what.. no love for the flash apps.. 🤡
@dennisfaucher The struggle to uninstall RealPlayer was real. It was awful, you'd be hard-pressed to find something worse.
@neromabene @dennisfaucher The struggle to get rid of all the browser "search bars" on your parents' conputer?
@Natanox @dennisfaucher A worse player than RealPlayer. But yeah, thanks for the memories; removing those "helpful" "search bars" is essentially a family tradition apparently.
@neromabene @Natanox @dennisfaucher grandma, I don’t know what you mean by “the internet is too small”. I’ll be over this afternoon, I’ll take a look at it then.

@neromabene @dennisfaucher

Aw... I was oddly fond of RealPlayer. It basically just worked, and it filed my music collection in the 'correct' directory structure because it used the *name* of the tracks rather than the mp3 tags, so to get things put in the right place, I just had to name them correctly 😀

@neromabene @dennisfaucher I still awake in the midst of the night, shaking with remembrance of trying to uninstall Real. 😉
@dennisfaucher …seems legit. Honed my combat skills on 4-player Doom death matches. I’m not the only person who ever walked into a 24 hour computer lab with cables to hardwire four PCs together.
The rise and fall of AoL. Linkpages, dancing gophers, 3.5 inch floppy discs, sharing MP3s (and bitmapped porn), MUDs, Hack, and the glory that was SGi…

@dennisfaucher

The time to die for RealPlayer is long past.

#AltTextForU irwin
@irwin

l've seen things you people wouldn't
believe. Gopher, Netscape with
frames, the first Browser Wars.
Searching for y pages with AltaVista,
pop-up windows self-replicating,
trying to uninstall RealPlayer. All
those moments will be lost in time,
like tears
in
rain. Time to die.

@dennisfaucher Installing your first Java applet ticker
@cmsdengl @dennisfaucher ActiveX plugins... [Wilhelm scream]
@dennisfaucher But have you ever tried to download a file from a BBS using a 400 baud modem? "Mic Drop".
@alandvalonline Do you mean 300? Because I've done that. Never heard of anyone using 400 baud. Maybe you meant 2400?
@wesdym Probably. It's been a few years since I used one, but I do remember when the 2400 baud came out I was excited.
@dennisfaucher And WAIS, Finger, Archie, Veronica...

@dennisfaucher @mpm Now this is a test of your nerd / geek levels @adhdeanasl

No imposter syndrome if you get all the references! 😁

Thanks to Dennis for posting & MArk for boosting - made me laugh … I have a version on my pinned posts.

@dennisfaucher Playing DOOM in a DOS window on OS/2 while your code compiled in the background.
@dennisfaucher line by line loading of pictures
@dennisfaucher I never really tried to _un_install RealPlayer, but have you ever tried to configure RealPlayer for Linux under SuSE?
@dennisfaucher God I'm old, I also lived through that time.
A time where McAfee were cool and innovative, where Google were a scrappy startup commited to not being evil.
I even remeber a time where MicroSoft were cool and IBM a bunch of clowns.
@johnrohde What every happened to "Do No Evil"?

@dennisfaucher @johnrohde

they tried to hold the phrase in their hands but dropped the word in the middle on the floor and left it there and at that.

@dennisfaucher

Yeah but that was when the web actually became something, there were times before that you know.

Anyway, what does it matter now, all long gone history, sure it was interesting to live through it all, but I do think it is amazing what has been created, at the start no-one had any idea it would be like this, we just had some fancy notions of what it might be like, they were mostly wrong.

@dennisfaucher marquee! Gone for good!
@dennisfaucher Was talking about a fond memory from IRC yesterday. My first encounter with a person online that made a huge impression on me.
@dennisfaucher Funny, I’d actually forgotten about those self replicating windows. Ah, good times!

@dennisfaucher

Which original?

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tears_in_rain_monologue has the exact text, and I've attached the first instance I have found of this meme.

@dennisfaucher Spider, Geocities, newsgroups...
@dennisfaucher single-pixel gifs...everywhere!
@dennisfaucher I'm running a gopher server, gn, on my raspberry pi. It's serving a 1996-ish copy of the server I used to run on Echonyc.com
@jhhl That is so beautiful
@dennisfaucher If you have a command line and good old lynx, it can act as a gopher client! So just type lynx gopher://arty.fish and you can see it.
Since it's gn, it can also be accessed via http://arty.fish:70, but where's the fun in that?
@jhhl I was inspired and created a gophermap including a PHP front end to Ollama chat :)
@dennisfaucher Was anyone able to punch the monkey?
@dennisfaucher multiplayer PC games over the IPX protocol
@dennisfaucher I remember that altavista was a search engine, and alta-vista was a hardcore porn site, as I discovered accidentally once in a busy open plan office 😩
@dennisfaucher @LibertyForward1 Flash, the horror that was Flash....
@dennisfaucher knowing the exact path to your favorite sites on Yahoo.
Making websites ( with frames) in notepad after reading "Learn HTML in a week".
@dennisfaucher I still remember when Yahoo and Lycos were University projects and were shut down