So, some sad news, I'm back on Windows for my main os.
I spent about 4 days working on #gentoo, and while I expected to have to research some things, it got really bad. Two days was trying to get the encryption to work, and required restarting from scratch as something seemed to go wrong, there was no networking.
The next round I got all the way to trying to set up the windows vm. Boy are some of the guides a mess outside of the handbook. One vm guide has you passing kernel commands to grub without going over them, including giving a cpu specific command without mentioning you may need a different one.
So for now it's back to windows. I don't want to miss out on things with loved ones because this is taking too long, and will instead play around with gentoo more in its own vm.