Rudie V. 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️

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Returning here after Firefish.lgbt went down.

Introvert but willing to discuss plants!
#Gardening is my first love; I'm particularly passionate about habitat and wildlife conservation/restoration. Other hobbies/interests include #music, #travel, playing guitar, and #baseball (Go Nats!). Dog dad to two Frenchies, Bi, feisty progressive/Democratic socialist.
Even though it looks like this instance is back up and running, I think the large size of Firefish.social is going to continue to be a liability in terms of performance so with that in mind, I'm relocating to iBe.social. So you may be getting a new follow request from me.
@bumble @[email protected] Question. I see some instance that say they're running Calckey and I'm confused as to whether they just didn't do the re-brand, or if that's a separate branch of the software being maintained independently of Firefish?
@bumble @[email protected] maybe this particular instance is just too big. I'll have a look around at a few other FF instances. I sure would love to stay.
@unicorn mine is still really slow :( Might call it a day with this instance and stick to Mastodon. I love the feature set on Firefish but I can't deal with the downtime any more.
Testing again. Are we back?
Testing
Happy #BisexualDayOfVisibility

No matter your gender identity, no matter your sexual orientation, you belong, you matter. The world is better with you in it. Your safety and well-being and happiness are what matters, not other people's opinions. So you be you, unapologetically.
@josh I appreciate that, thank you!
@StanWonn I can usually manage to take that view when it's people not close to me (co-workers, for example) but it can be tricky when it's people you share a roof with. I think I'm just going to have to have a frank talk with this particular person tomorrow.
Not in a good place today. Feeling like my subdued, introverted personality is always disappointing people, even those close to me. Like, I'm sorry but my personality is what it is, for better or worse. If you can't deal with that, I don't know what to tell you, other than you should have a more open mind and a bigger heart. I have enough to deal with without trying to live up to what other people want from me. I just don't have the mental energy for that.