✈️ "That restaurant in Kraków you loved, what was it called again?"

I had no idea. That bothered me more than it should have.

So I built a travel memory system that thinks while I ski. Three layers + AI backfill + automation = never losing travel gold again.

🎿 Just shipped: How I Built a Travel Memory System That Thinks While I Ski

• 3-layer notes vault (trips → cities → places)
• AI-powered backfill of decade of scattered bookings
• Morning digests that handle logistics before the kids wake up
• The GitHubby principle that changed how I capture everything

The goal isn't efficiency. It's presence.

https://open.substack.com/pub/coffeejourneys/p/how-i-built-a-travel-memory-system?r=6743u&utm_medium=ios

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I made a big decision recently. The kind my generation was warned against.

More on that another time.

But the process taught me something I keep coming back to: 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙬𝙞𝙡𝙡 𝙣𝙚𝙫𝙚𝙧 𝙛𝙚𝙚𝙡 𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙙𝙮. 𝘽𝙚𝙘𝙖𝙪𝙨𝙚 𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙙𝙮 𝙞𝙨𝙣'𝙩 𝙖 𝙛𝙚𝙚𝙡𝙞𝙣𝙜 — 𝙞𝙩'𝙨 𝙖 𝙙𝙚𝙘𝙞𝙨𝙞𝙤𝙣 you make despite the fear.

Fear is a mile wide but paper thin. The problem? We keep waiting for it to disappear before we act.

It won't. So instead — interrogate it.

When fear has you frozen, ask yourself these questions:

-> 𝗪𝗵𝘆 𝗮𝗺 𝗜 𝗺𝗼𝘃𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗳𝗮𝘀𝘁? Panic is fear in disguise. Pause, look around, assess, before you spiral.

-> 𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗮𝗺 𝗜 𝗮𝗰𝘁𝘂𝗮𝗹𝗹𝘆 𝗮𝘃𝗼𝗶𝗱𝗶𝗻𝗴? Name it. Fear hides behind procrastination and exhaustion.

-> 𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁'𝘀 𝗿𝗲𝗮𝗹𝗹𝘆 𝗮𝘁 𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗸𝗲? It's rarely what you think. Usually it's an old story: I'm not enough.

-> 𝗪𝗵𝗼 𝘁𝗼𝗹𝗱 𝗺𝗲 𝘁𝗼 𝗯𝗲 𝗮𝗳𝗿𝗮𝗶𝗱? Fear is learned. Fact-check your teacher.

-> 𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗮𝗰𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝗰𝗮𝗻 𝗜 𝘁𝗮𝗸𝗲 𝗿𝗶𝗴𝗵𝘁 𝗻𝗼𝘄? Agency breaks paralysis. Any step counts.

-> 𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗰𝗮𝗻 𝗜 𝗹𝗲𝗮𝗿𝗻 𝗳𝗿𝗼𝗺 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀? Make the outcome useful regardless of what happens.

-> 𝗛𝗼𝘄 𝘄𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗵𝗲𝗹𝗽 𝗺𝗲

A couple of year ago, I was sitting at my desk, preparing for my second job change in short period of time.

And I found myself saying something out loud, to no one in particular:

"Thank you."

I was talking to myself — from twelve months earlier. The version of me that had documented every interview question, every coaching insight, every hard lesson. Notes I'd completely forgotten writing. But there they were, exactly when I needed them.

That moment changed how I think about note-taking.

It's not about productivity. It's about compounding. Every note is a small investment in your future self.

But I didn't always think this way.

For years, my system was Evernote. It worked — until it didn't.

The day it broke for me: I was standing in a coffee queue, trying to pull up a note I'd written that morning. My phone wouldn't sync. I'd hit the device limit. My own thinking, locked behind someone else's paywall.

That's when I realised: these weren't really my notes. They lived in Ever
https://coffeejourneys.blog/evernote-to-obsidian-migration-story/

I've just updated my "Now" page.

February delivered one of those rare weeks where everything happening around you, and inside you, points at the same idea. We flew to Poland and drove to Tylicz in the Beskid Sądecki mountains for a family ski week: not for me (a knee operation kept me firmly on the bench with hot tea and a good book), but for the kids and their first proper lessons.
While they were grinding through five days on the slopes with the Pomarancza ski school, I was quietly testing my personal AI system in real-world conditions. Somewhere between watching my nine-year-old hold her balance for the first time and getting my morning skiing update from my digital assistant, I came across a framework for skill acquisition that made the whole week click.

What I've been up to?

- ⛷️ Using The Slope as Classroom
- 🤖 Testing OpenClaw in the Wild
- 🔁 Using Six Steps to Getting Better at Anything

Check it out!
https://coffeejourneys.blog/now

Ready to shift from positional authority to presence-based authority? Try these:

𝗦𝗹𝗼𝘄 𝗱𝗼𝘄𝗻 𝗯𝘆 𝟮𝟬%.
In your next meeting, consciously move and speak more slowly than usual. Notice how it changes your energy—and how others respond.

𝗟𝗲𝗮𝘃𝗲 𝗮 𝗴𝗶𝗳𝘁 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝗳𝘂𝘁𝘂𝗿𝗲-𝘆𝗼𝘂.
Tonight, set up one small thing that will make tomorrow easier. Coffee ready to brew. Clothes laid out. Inbox at zero. Build that relationship with your future self.

𝗖𝗼𝗺𝗽𝗹𝗲𝘁𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗺𝗼𝘃𝗲𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁𝘀.
For one day, notice every time you abandon a gesture, trail off mid-sentence, or leave an action incomplete. Finish what you start.

𝗔𝘀𝗸 𝗺𝗼𝗿𝗲, 𝗮𝗻𝘀𝘄𝗲𝗿 𝗹𝗲𝘀𝘀.
In your next meeting, count how many questions you ask versus how many you answer. Aim for a higher ratio of asking.

𝗙𝗶𝗻𝗱 𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘁𝗼 𝗲𝗻𝗷𝗼𝘆.
In your least favourite regular meeting, find one genuine thing to appreciate. The warmth of your coffee. A colleague’s perspective. The fact that the meeting will eventually end. (Joking. Mostly.)

https://coffeejourneys.substack.com/p/the-quiet-authority-why-presence

We think authority is positional. It’s something granted by org charts and job titles. When someone says “I have authority here,” they’re thinking in terms of hierarchy: I’m above this person, I’m over these people.

-> But here’s the thing: hierarchies and status have nothing to do with real authority.

Let’s dive in 👇🏻

https://open.substack.com/pub/coffeejourneys/p/the-quiet-authority-why-presence?r=6743u&utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web&showWelcomeOnShare=true

We don’t know how to argue.
People often fight to destroy, letting their egos drive them to win.

Learn how to fight.

Disagreements are inevitable; resentment is optional.

Fight clean: no shouting, no character attacks, no public shaming.

»Resolve; don’t destroy.«

This applies to leadership, relationships and parenting.

Practise often.

January has already passed. If you want to turn your resolution into a healthy habit, make it one that supports your health.

https://coffeejourneys.substack.com/p/the-only-resolution-that-matters

I've just updated my "Now" page.

This month, I've been thinking a lot about the hidden architecture of things—the systems, both visible and invisible, that shape how we experience the world. It started with a book that felt like a blueprint for the emotional toll of ADHD, continued with another that revealed how the web's biggest flaws became its foundational pillars, and it all culminated in the work I'm doing on my own digital garden, turning years of messy notes into a system that thinks. It’s a recurring lesson: understanding the system, whether it’s in our brains or on our screens, is the first step toward changing our relationship with it.

What I've been up to?

- 📖 Understanding Loved Ones
- 🕸️ Reading (and remembering) How Pain Built the Web
- 🕰️ Time-Traveling Through My Notes

Check it out!
https://coffeejourneys.blog/now

This tool is quietly blowing up.
Turn maps into beautiful posters in minutes.

No install?
Play online: https://huggingface.co/spaces/fffiloni/maptoposter

Love the command line?
Go nerd mode: https://github.com/originalankur/maptoposter

Fair warning: it’s weirdly addictive.