Thommy March15  🏴 🏳️‍⚧️

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​ I'm just a silly weirdo with way too many hobbies. I make creepy music and do some photography. Stop me if you've heard this one before, but as a teenager, music ​​ and gothy fashion ​​ saved me. I now realize from seeing how my older kid dresses that my then "perkygoth" fashion is very similar to today's neo-scene fashion (but also overlaps with today's "pastel goth" ​).

Admin of the two goth fediverse instances
The Cave (Sharkey) and Vampire Geeks (Pixelfed). Consider joining!

A few of the bands I like:

COIL, Current 93, The Cure, Bedroom Witch, Christian Death, Oingo Boingo, Gossamer, Aranmaybe, Lav Andula, Youth Code, Leæther Strip, She Past Away, SOPHIE, Male Tears, Glass Spells, HEALTH, Digital Love, Kontravoid, Romeo Void, Joy Division, Talking Heads, CAPSULE, Perfume

Random shit about me:

​ I grew up in a small town in the mountains. This tends to make people weird. But it also came with a lot of appreciation for nature! 🌲
​ I'm genderqueer 🏳️‍⚧️ but I often just look like a man, whatever
​ I sometimes do a food booth where I serve panella, the Sicilian equivalent of falafel, among other vegan street foods
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I jumped around the interview out of morbid curiosity and, yeah, she kinda sucks. She underestimates how much gendercrit ideology factors into WPATH's decisions. But at least she pushed back on Klein insisting that surely the government has some role to play there. She pushed back in other ways too but again the people who are going to take the anti-trans-except-for-McBride position are going to pretend that the main thrust of her side of the discussion was to say that trans people are being too ridiculous and that's the problem.

Anyway, I thought this statement, by one of the bloggers at Yglesias' blog, was especially funny. Yes, broadly, people who have a stake in the matter are results-oriented. Pragmatism is not the same thing as being
nice to bigots or moderate though. Trans people are good at choosing battles in personal lives and tend to have nearly infinite patience. But it's also weird to cherry-pick this one individual as a representative of what positions you'd take if you had a stake in the matter. Because the entire population of people who have a stake in the matter, trans people, are especially prone to thinking that NYT, Matt Yglesias and countless pundits are transphobic. People who don't have a stake in the matter tend to think that's a ridiculous claim. Plenty of annoying trans activists who make the center-left goons upset are at least as thoughtful, if not more so, than McBride.
It seems every year I have to re-learn that I do, indeed, have SAD when the weather gets hot and to not act surprised when my stupid brain acts up.
Political junkies are going to treat Sarah McBride as an expert on how to advance trans rights. There is no reason to do this. She probably has something worth saying about how to succeed in a transphobic field despite bring trans. Until she establishes a history of preventing transphobic legislation, her accomplishment is personal and political.

I guess you could say the advantage of representation is that people like Ezra Klein are vastly more likely to care what you have to say if you are a politician. So that may be the only way to get newspapers to finally print our opinion on the matter.

But you can see how even when she says reasonable things, the center-left kinda skips over that and just latches onto the word "grace." She's implying that cis allies need to step up and argue for trans rights, but all they hear is some nonsense about trans people needing to be nicer to our oppressors.
Growing up having OCD, I always had this anxiety that I'm as crazy as Brian Wilson, but without his talent. My OCD wasn't as severe as his (and I never got into drugs, thanks hypochondria!) but I was certainly right that I, like most people, don't have that kind of talent.

He was a
#FreeBritney before Britney, showing that even a rich and famous white person can be abused by a conservatorship if they're deemed mentally ill. Multiple streams of influence start from him to get to me. Kraftwerk were influenced by Beach Boys. As was much of the Dream Pop space. But of course I also just grew up listening to a lot of their albums. I remember once as a small kid, doing something on my legos and instantly Kokomo happened to start playing, making me feel like I triggered that.
I wish I could afford laser so that I could have a chest as smooth as my brain

Unfortunately, when people choose to remain ignorant about something, it doesn’t necessarily follow that they fail to form opinions about it. If people have an understandable tendency to limit the effort they put into learning about social or public policy issues, they frequently also have a tendency to form strong opinions about national issues based on relatively little information. Hence the prevalence of strong negative — bigoted, in other words — opinions about LGBT people, People of Color, and immigrants.

https://c4ss.org/content/60395

Rational Ignorance, Cognitive Distortion, and Anarchism

In public choice theory, “rational ignorance” refers to the choice not to inform oneself on some issue when the costs of doing so outweigh the benefits — in particular, when they outweigh the likelihood of one’s vote influencing the outcome of an election or one’s political pressure influencing a politician’s decisions. It also makes sense...

Center for a Stateless Society
Periodic reminder that this is a small #goth and other dark culture themed fedi instance if that sounds like something you might be interested in!
My thinking is less "why would I read something someone didn't bother to write?" and more "why would I read something someone didn't bother to edit?"

If you let your cat step in paint and walk on your canvas and, upon inspection, found the result worthy of publication, then I'll check it out if I trust you're artistic vision.

Conversely, there are many things someone did bother to write and put 0 thought in before hitting post. Technology that speeds up drek-production just adds to the existing problem.

Also, do you have #ADHD and feel bad about having a bunch of unfinished projects, abandoned hobbies, unread books, etc.?

Yeah, you should stop that.

You have a neurological bias toward novelty and poor executive function. You're probably using up all your self-control to do the things you need to get done like work, chores, and errands.

As long as you aren't digging yourself into a financial hole, cut yourself some slack with the stuff you do for fun. It's gonna be messy, and that's okay.

Happy mother's day to my mom specifically