Mel

@pikminlover
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Pro-snacks. Bisexual. Beer enjoyer. Cat person. Japanese learner (beginner!).
She/her.
Mostly eating:Haribo Supermix
Listening to:Alt-J
Podcasts:Tech Won't Save Us, Paris Marx
Reading:Caffeinated, Murray Carpenter
I know there's a lot going on right now, but the characterization by the president - to our top military leadership - of US cities as "battlefields" that should be used as "military training grounds" (and without "stupid rules of engagement") is a very big deal. Even by 2025 standards, this is terrifying.

DDMR Pocket week 1 in numbers:

203 confirmed downloads
2 sales (unexpected and utterly appreciated)
429 highest score
2 requests for physical copies (impractical I'm afraid, but can't say I'm not tempted)
1 review slot booked
1 press mention
4 "You should do <insert impossible game here> next" comments
lots of other nice comments from people
zero negative comments

Download the game that at least five people have described as "addictive" at https://infinitestategames.itch.io/ddmrpocket
#NGPCDev #DDMR #DDMRPocket

Classic and still-hilarious meme: Drunk Jeff Goldblum in a 1999 Apple commercial. https://kottke.org/12/10/drunk-jeff-goldblum
Drunk Jeff Goldblum

One of my favorite “memes” of all time is Drunk Jeff Goldblum. The first video, a slowed-down ad for Apple from 1999,

kottke.org

I want to explain a few things and then it might be clearer why UK trans people are upset.

In 2001 I married my wife, Sylvia.

In 2005 I started medical transition. For the state to recognise this I had to submit to standards of "care" which were humiliating, degrading and which placed me at risk of violence.

But I did it "by the book"

As I did it "by the book", the NHS agreed to reregister me as female, which makes sense because my anatomy now is.

In 2007 I had sex reassignment surgery. This had to be signed off by two mental health professionals, "by the book", and it was.

In 2008 I applied for gender recognition. This involved signing a statutory obligation, stating that I promised, BY LAW, to live fully as female for the rest of my life. As this was done, "by the book", the government promised that it would treat me as such.

Its first act as treating me as female was to annul our marriage because it was a same sex marriage and those were not allowed.

The state then reissued my birth certificate, correcting the "mistake" it had originally made when it recorded me as male, "by the book".

In 2009 Sylvia and I married for the second time, in a same sex civil partnership, which was done "by the book", because the state regarded me as female and I was bound by law to be female.

In 2013 we married again, because the state decided that same sex marriage was in fact allowed after all. This was done, "by the book". Despite having been married for 12 years, we had to submit ourselves to individual questioning to prove our relationship was genuine, "by the book".

In April of 2025 the state turned round and told me that I had been mistaken. That it never regarded me as female. That I was male the whole time. That the marriage it annulled because it was a same sex marriage was never a same sex marriage (but it stays annulled). That the civil partnership in 2009 never really happened because "opposite sex" civil partnerships were not allowed in 2009.

And that the legal obligation I have to live as female for the rest of my life, which I signed and gave up my marriage for, is still in effect but also if I keep following it, I am breaking the law and subject to arrest. As it's still valid, presumably if I don't keep following it, I am also breaking the law and subject to arrest.

The law of the land simultaneously requires me to be both a man and a woman and if I do either then I am breaking the law and subject to arrest.

At every stage I did what the state asked me to, even though it was humiliating, degrading and cruel.

And it kept moving the goalposts, and reneging on the agreements it made, whilst continuing to hold me to them even when they are now mutually contradictory.

Apparently this is "all my fault" and I should have known that this would be the consequences of my actions when I started medical transition 2 decades ago.

Perhaps you can now appreciate why we are upset?

"We. All. Know. It."

In which Sam Altman admits his plans for steering OpenAI through what he admits is an AI hype bubble around LLMs, depend on the invention of a not-yet-specifiable magic perpetual money-creating machine, that will somehow manifest trillions-with-a-tr worth of data center construction, apparently running on pure techbro genius

Even in these times of continuous onslaught of bullshit, I have never seen such bullshit as this

https://www.wired.com/story/sam-altman-says-chatgpt-is-on-track-to-out-talk-humanity/

Spoiler: there’s no treasonous conspiracy .

I read every word of the Gabbard Files so you don’t have to. The arguments — when compared to the evidence, timelines, 3 prior investigations, and 3 prior meta-investigations — indicate either breathtakingly bad faith or astonishingly low reading comprehension. You decide.

https://www.lawfaremedia.org/article/from-russian-interference-to-revisionist-innuendo--what-the-gabbard-files-actually-say

Users hate #AI. So tech made it mandatory. Even if you don't personally use it, it pollutes what you read and how systems make decisions. The computer's hallucinated word is final.

And it steals your data to do it.

Your tools are constructing you as a subject of surveillance — the #UX is making it seem normal to expose every facet of your life to companies with complete disregard for your privacy.

This is NOT normal. It's deeply weird. But it's becoming unavoidable.

https://productpicnic.beehiiv.com/p/the-ai-age-is-the-age-of-no-consent-7559

The AI age is the "age of no consent"

"Inevitability" means design decisions are no longer informed by user needs; now they are unilaterally imposed. The users are the ones being designed.

The Product Picnic
I wish someday to be half as happy as this turtle on a skateboard, chasing a cat ...
A lovely, beautiful, and uplifting obituary of poet and activist Andrea Gibson. “One of the last things Andrea said on this plane was, ‘I fucking loved my life.’” https://www.instagram.com/p/DMGCmMBs0Xi
Andrea Gibson on Instagram: "Andrea Gibson 8/13/75 - 7/14/25"

75K likes, 7,636 comments - andreagibson on July 14, 2025: "Andrea Gibson 8/13/75 - 7/14/25".

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