#Introduction Hi there! This is Marco, born 1973, CIS male on the outside, but much more gender fluid on the inside. Always been bisexual, but recently refer to myself more as pansexual, as this is how I feel. I have several accounts on the
#fediverse, but this one is mostly about queer topics. And maybe a bit of innuendo here and there. 😉 I am interested in
#polyamory,
#RelationshipAnarchy,
#SexPositivity. Feel free to follow and/or say hi. 😊
@Vyen Nicht? Warum das denn nicht? Nicht mal ein bisschen Leben-Am-Limit-Feeling? 😂
Und ja, das hätte schon einen ziemlichen Nerd-Faktor.
@Vyen Es gibt doch einen SSH Client für iOS, ShellFish, da müsste Mensch mal mit dem Autoren Kontakt aufnehmen, ob der Support für Siri Shortcuts einbaut, dann kannste das bestimmt bald machen.
@moiety This reminds me of the scene in the „Bohemian Rapsody“ film where Freddie Mercury dreams up the introducing piano riff, and after waking up, plays it on a piano overhead somehow.
@moiety Awwwww thank you, big hugs back!
The biggest takeaway for me is simply the relief over the fact that in today‘s society, especially among younger people, there is room for this fluidity. That‘s why I am also comfortable sharing this with y‘all here today.
That doesn‘t change much in our daily lives, we are both still comfortable with the male pronouns for me and female ones for her, part of the reason being that in German, gendered nouns and verb building is a much more painful business than in English, and many such language constructs simply hurt our 50 year old autistic brains too much. 😊
One other thing is that the way I feel doesn‘t fit with what the majority of other fellow biological y-chromosome cariers describe to me in conversations, or how they act towards others. I do find traits in me that are „typical male“, but also find a lot of traits that are „typical female“ ones. My partner, biological female and to her knowledge so far heterosexually oriented, feels the same about herself, and how she perceives me. So, we may both somehow qualify as NB I guess.
As I learn and reflect more and more on myself and how my life has been, one thing I am noticing that many stereotypical gender traits don‘t apply to me, and never have. I have always known that I am bisexual, possibly even pansexual, althrough except for one instance, I lack the physical experience to back that up. I find people sexually and romantically attractive, not their genders. In that, I am even more fluid than many other bisexuals I know, especially CIS men.
Hello queer friends and followers, just popping in to say that I am still here, but still also dealing with health related issues, learning a lot about myself and how my autism, blindness, and all the interplay and high cognitive load has contributed to my current state of health and why I have been struggling with work-related illness on and off for almost all my working life. This is a lot to digest and sift through. And painful, too.
