@HunterAnton @fesshole this comment only works if you know who payed for it. If he payed for it then yea I see and issue here but if she paid for it then I see where your coming from. Now if someone else paid for it which I doubt cause the wife is the one making the plans unless the kids pitched in to do do it then the kids should do the same for dad.
So tdlr he paid= she selfish, if she paid for herself= he has no say, kids paid for it = they are assholes to their dad and she is kinda eh
Because that's how it works the ppl "in true power" will stop any change as much as possible .. I blame the family that started this shit in late 1700's the du pont family specifically