Thank you everyone who commented on my post <3
https://leminal.space/post/19142654
Thank you everyone who commented on my post <3 - Leminal Space
I deleted my post because - even know I know this is part of why communities
like this exist - I always feel hesitant to share personal information. I wanted
to add a few more things for clarification: I don’t usually have a curfew but on
work nights I never stay out late anyway because I also benefit from sticking to
my sleep schedule and evening routine. Secondly: I didn’t mention that my
partner doesn’t just get migraines. They’re chronically ill with a condition
called vestibular migraines - where migraine attacks can lead to heavy vertigo
attacks that can last for weeks. On that particular day a few days ago they had
(a) already several potential triggers happening to them, such as sudden change
in weather and lack of sleep. And (b) - like I had mentioned - a very exhausting
and stressful day ahead of them the next day. So with these things combined they
were quite on edge already. We had a long talk yesterday where we both
apologized for the things we said and came to a mutual understanding of what
happened. We’ve been together for 10 years and they’ve been incredibly
supportive of me in many ways. Unfortunately they have specific personal trauma
that gets triggered by things I do due to my ADHD that other people would just
shrug off but they are working on this - we’re both working on our issues.
Again, thank you all so much for your input and support <3
Just some hugs for my lovely trans siblings
https://leminal.space/post/19039066
Just some hugs for my lovely trans siblings - Leminal Space
With the depressing recent news from UK I just wanted to tell you that I think
you’re all awesome and I love you and I’m sorry the world is such a shitty place
for trans people. I’m queer but cis and I’m so done with queer people throwing
trans people under the bus. I wish you all the best, lots of love <3
We already sleep in separate rooms but I’m a clumsy person and when I come home I can’t guarantee I won’t accidentally drop something or bump into something and wake them up. I’d love to be quiet like a ninja but I’m really very much not.
I work a full-time job and my partner is a university student. I didn’t try to mess with their sleep because I didn’t know they wanted to go to bed earlier than they usually do. If I had known I wouldn’t have been late.
My partner has actually stated that they think they might be autistic so this could very much be the case.
The dishes are my responsibility as it’s my partner who usually does the cooking and I do the dishes. But you’re 100% correct about there being some important questions I have to ask myself.
We do actually already sleep in separate rooms (I maybe should have mentioned this in my post) but the problem is that I’m a bit of a clumsy little troll and even when I’m trying hard to be quiet there’s a high chance I’m bump into something or drop something and wake them up.
We do actually already sleep in separate rooms (I maybe should have mentioned this in my post) but the problem is that I’m a bit of a clumsy little troll and even when I’m trying hard to be quiet there’s a high chance I’m bump into something or drop something and wake them up.
